Justletgo Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 About a week ago we bumped into one another and she said 'you can talk to me you know' in an angry sort of tone. I declined, cause she had been ignoring me for MONTHS. Anyway days after that I apologized for waving her off. Because I realized it was pretty mean of me, I still sort of feel bad about it. Now I bump into her again and she said "seriously, GO away" whilst walking off. So of course, I went away. And plan on not giving her the delight of me making an effort to converse with her. But I SERIOUSLY cannot understand this, can anyone here? It's just so frustrating.....
joe86 Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 She's probably in a position with a lot of mixed emotions & doesn't really know herself what she wants. A few weeks back my ex text me saying she'd been thinking about wanting to see me. Later that day we exchanged a few friendly messages when I responded, week or so later I asked how she was & it was all friendly, and since then I've heard nothing. People who don't know what they want just need leaving alone because, I believe, when they know what they want, they'll do what they need to do to get it.
steveT95 Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 When me and my ex broke up. I said I didn't want to talk to her, after she got upset I said we could talk. But I found it too hard so told her I didn't think we should talk. The night before she'd cried that she didn't know if she could cope without talking to me. The night I told her we couldn't talk she told me I would struggle and she'd be fine. No one knows what they want, but there's a reason why No Contact works so well. 2
sniperz Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 When me and my ex broke up. I said I didn't want to talk to her, after she got upset I said we could talk. But I found it too hard so told her I didn't think we should talk. The night before she'd cried that she didn't know if she could cope without talking to me. The night I told her we couldn't talk she told me I would struggle and she'd be fine. No one knows what they want, but there's a reason why No Contact works so well. No contact is good sometimes but not entirely. But it's a better way to heal, rethink and don't do more mistakes.
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