Author alex007 Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 (edited) I did tell her a week after the break up, when i was having a really good day, that I could be just friends with her like she wanted. But after we had a breef convo that day about her going to some function with her sisters and parents we both didn't contact eachother for 3 days. Then she text me "Just hoping all is well." I didn't respond... now it has been 2 days after that text she sent me when she told me we should meet up for lunch sometime. Does that make any difference? I just want others opinions... I feel like I was led on and used kinda... and she lied about loving me if she could tell me that and then a few days later dumps me.. I told her about 2 different times in our relationship that I would be there for her for the good times but especially the bad/hard times because those are when you see the true character of a person etc etc. Guess she didn't feel the same way.. even though she said I was the first guy she actually could see a future with. Edited October 18, 2013 by alex007
Author alex007 Posted October 19, 2013 Author Posted October 19, 2013 (edited) Okay people so I have an update. The last I heard from my ex was 2 days ago through a text. I was leaving work yesterday and turned my phone back on and saw that one of her co-workers who I dated very briefly (for about a month but she was weird so i stopped talking to her, then 6 months later started talking to current ex) sent me a FB friend request... I have no clue why... I am guessing for my latest ex to see my pix? Of course I will not accept it. But here is the main reason for me posting right now. I woke up at 6am and saw that I had a missed call and voice mail from my current ex that happened right before 2am. I was a little shocked since I thought she broke up with me and seemed like she really didn't want much to do with me but be friends. I have been NC for about a week now. I posted a pic with me and the new girl I am with now on instagram and she saw it. The voicemail was word for word this... " umm hi, actually, I... So i texted you earlier.. ummm being the bigger person...you know whatever.. but actually I'm just... I don't know... it hurt my feelings i guess.. that you moved on so quick.. and we are over... I think its your ex-gf, but i'm not even sure.. and i don't even care... I mean ironically I am the one who broke up with you and its been harder for me then you, and you just say things like you still want to be friends and that you can do that... and then you just ignore me because you are... i don't know why... but its stupid and umm...so i just decided I wanted to tell you because I am actually pretty mad at you, and i think that's dumb.. and i cant do anything about it but i didn't want to just leave it at that, and me being the bigger person and not telling you that I am hurt because I actually am and... thats all... disappointed...bb.. Okay bye... whatever." Edited October 19, 2013 by alex007
Author alex007 Posted October 19, 2013 Author Posted October 19, 2013 advice please? i need to know what people think
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