Missyhissy Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 Hi All I'm new to the love shack. I'm single 41 year old mother of two and you'd think dating would be easier at my age lol. I met a guy through my brother. He is a fair bit older than I am. He's 60 but fit and healthy. I have spent some occasions at my brothers home where this man visits regularly but I never thought of him in any way till last weekend. There was a party and the two of us ended up chatting quite a bit. I had a few beers as did he. When it was time to go to bed and everyone was gone we ended up having a very nice romantic hug and kiss. It was so good. Neither of us were drunk btw. The next day though neither of us seemed to take the initiative to speak about it. We didn't have the chance as many of the guests were still about. He seemed worried about how my brother would feel. Anyhow I would like to see him again but have no idea how to contact him. I know it's silly. All I can do is hope to bump into him again and this time I will ask for his number. He is a shy man. I can't see him approaching me. Gosh it all sounds immature. I've tried to forget about it but it was such a beautiful moment we shared and his age is not an issue to me. Maybe mine is to him. Should I ask him. Hmmmmm confused here Thanks for reading. Any input is appreciated
Toddbt12y1 Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 As you said, he often visits your brother. I would use such as an opportunity to speak with him. See where his thoughts are on this. Since he is shy, and hasn't approached you yet with this, you will need to do the approaching. Doubt your age is an issue to him either. Given your hugs and kisses of the night. It may go splendidly. You just have to try. 1
Author Missyhissy Posted September 29, 2013 Author Posted September 29, 2013 Hi Todd Thanks for your reply. I hope to go to my brothers soon and hope to bump into him. I have thought about asking my brother for the guys number but it just never seems to be the right time and I don't have an excuse. Thanks Missy
Toddbt12y1 Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 Hi Todd Thanks for your reply. I hope to go to my brothers soon and hope to bump into him. I have thought about asking my brother for the guys number but it just never seems to be the right time and I don't have an excuse. Thanks Missy Ask the guy himself. You did say he frequents the house, so. You may see him, than ask him.
Author Missyhissy Posted September 29, 2013 Author Posted September 29, 2013 I think im having trouble waiting for a time when I'll see him. I really want to know either way. My brother lives an hour or so from me. I'd like this man to know I'm interested in him. I really doubt he would tell my brother anything about what happened so its unlikely he'd try to contact me through him. But alas I will wait. I think it's the best option. But when I do see him ill be sure to not beat about the bush like we both did last time. It's clear we like each other. If its meant to be well sort this out I guess. I'm just impatient. I want those sweet kisses again and more. Lol Missy
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