confusedguest Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 I met an interesting woman that I'd like to get to know better. When we met we actually said "I like you" to each other. I'm shy, so that was a huge step for me. We have since run into each other a lot and we chat a little when we do. We have emailed a couple of times now. The last time I ran into her, I suggested getting together this coming week. She was all smiles, looked VERY happy, and said sure! She said she would email me, but I haven't heard from her since. It's been more than a few days. I sent her a cute e-card and told her that I would love to get together with her. I included my phone number. I know she got it, because the site sends a confirmation when the ecard is picked up. I still haven't heard a thing. I can't call her, because I don't have her number. (I never asked because she gave me her email addy) Is she just not interested? Is she playing hard to get, or just plain playing? Should I just let it go? I think I should do nothing, and wait it out for at least a week. Is a week too long though? I've never had this happen before. Usually people do what they say they are going to do. This woman has me confused.
rowi1116 Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 hi. okay, if you got the confirmation that she did read the e-card....and if you did include information on the email (you know...before they click on the link) that would indicate it was from you.... and she didnt write back or call in 48hours..... get her out of your mind. she did get the email. its her choice to respond, and if she didnt then you deserve to move on, dont stress over her. you deserve a quick thinker!!!
alphamale Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by confusedguest Is she just not interested? Is she playing hard to get, or just plain playing? Should I just let it go? I think I should do nothing, and wait it out for at least a week. Is a week too long though? I've never had this happen before. Usually people do what they say they are going to do. This woman has me confused. I can tell you have extremely limited experience with females cause any guy who has been with lots of women would NEVER say they do what they say they are going to do. Here are answers to your questions, in order: Yes, she is not interested She is playing but was being friendly only Yes let it go Wait it out but you'll wait for ever
confusedguest Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Thanks for your help people! I've been out of the dating scene for years, so I'm really, really, really rusty!!! I'm used to my friends, who are all really reliable people. I think I made a mistake using email in the first place! I won't be doing that again! Next time I will ask for a phone number! Thanks again! Your words confirmed what I was pretty much thinking already.
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