tigrrrlili Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 So here goes. I have had three serious relationships, the last one I was married, I filed for a divorce because he fooled around on me with a 17 y/o. So my next relationship was with a man who promised me the moon, from the get go I felt uneasy, like we were seeing each other but I had a feeling he was still seeing other people, I found messages he had been sending to other women, trying to hook up, this killed me, we were a month into the relationship, my heart broke. So in return I made out with a guy, throughout the months I am pretty sure this continued, I wasn't seeing anyone or doing anything during this time. I always felt there was something not right about us, we get along great, we mesh very well, it is just this...so anyways I find out again he was trying to hook up with a chick, this woman is old, fat, and has like 3 kids or something, he is 30 y/o and so am I. To make a long story short, I started to see a guy I work with, he is nice and all but I just don't feel the same way I feel about my guy, to my dismay he had slept with two other people, and I have with one, consecutively. Not only, that but the second woman he was with is just friggin nasty, and she told me they had slept together, I confronted him and he denied it, and she sent me the messages...my heart broke...this all happened in a week. I know I am a hypocrite, but my heart can not take it anymore, how do I know he will not do this again, should we end it? The is answer is so obvious, yet the action is so hard. Also, we are living together. Any suggestions?
r321148 Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 I think you already know the answer to this. You guys are clearly not right for each other. If you keep up this relationship you will both end up hurting each other more. If he valued you that much then he wouldn't continue trying to hook up with other people and the way for you to deal with that is to get rid. Trying to get even with him will just cause you more hurt. how do I know he will not do this again? you don't but it's been the same your whole relationship with this guy so what makes you think it will change now? should we end it? yes for both of your sakes!
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