gd1039 Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 I went out on what was not necessarily a date with this girl from work last night. We haven't talked much at work, but we ended up having a lot in common and I had a real good time. Looking back there are a few things I wish I had done to show some interest (as usual). Now this brings me to my predictament. She is going back to school tomorrow and I won't see her for two weeks until she returns for winter break. I want to give her a call in the course of those two weeks, but the fact that we only really hung out once, and that considering it wasn't really a date date, I don't want to come off as clingy. I mean, I have no real reason to call her other than to try to stay in touch so we go out again (and hopefully things progress) and to stay fresh in her mind. So, should I just wait for her to get back and call her then, or should I call her sometime durring the course of the 2 weeks she is gone (and what should I say when I call)? I know things to talk about, but I don't know how I should approach why I am calling her. I kinda think just keeping a casual conversation and then asking her when she will be back in town because I want to go out again (even though this was already stated at the conclusion of the evening). Suggestions?
Scarlett_girl Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 call her! i cannot understand you guys! if you like a girl..let her know!!!!! good luck !
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 Definitely! There's a very good chance she has at least heard of "He's Just Not That Into You", and that book states clearly - that if a guy isn't calling, he isn't interested. Now, the book is full of generalizations but people are eating it up like rare butter. If you don't call she's probably going to assume that you aren't interested. I wouldn't call every day, but make at least one call, and during the course of that ask her if its ok to call her back and then do it. Then on that call ask if you can call again - you get the idea. Take it phone call by phone call. Ask her if she would be interested in doing something when she gets back to town - a guy who plans that far ahead is definitely interested! Sounds promising, anyway. Good luck!
newbie Posted November 28, 2004 Posted November 28, 2004 If you like her, call her!!! Don't play silly head games.
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