thewrongonee Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Hello LS hope you are all doing fine. I met this girl that ive been seeing for a 2 months or less, and today we hit a slump. she came over to my house and we relaxed a bit then went to my room and started making out. I did play a bit agressive this time and made her moan and get really into the mood. My intention was not sex just a fun make out session. she did enjoy it, i could tell but she felt really guilty i can tell. She left a 7 year long relationship recently, and now shes seeing me within those days. I have a question, did i mess up by pushing too hard? because she did pick up my call after, she called me and i told her im going out for a bit. but now shes not responding to her texts, or calls. \I think the guilt trip just sank in and now shes confused. But where do i go from here, she told me shes ready to move on but she also said today that were going too fast and we need to slow down. I told her that i agree and illl slow down, and she was happy after that. I m not sure what exactly happend after all that, but now im stuck here frekn feeling like **** cuz ithink i did something wrong. i do care about this girl, i should have kept it steady but things happen, and i cant take them back. Can someone please tell me a reasonable response to this situation, should i wait for her to call or text me or tell her that i understand she feels guilty?
Author thewrongonee Posted September 28, 2013 Author Posted September 28, 2013 Just need guidance, what steps to take or should i give her space? I have to go to work with this burden in my head, this will suck for tonight
coolheadal Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Pull in your gut and take a deep breath and just back down a bit. Let her contact you and see how it goes from there. See what her intent with you is? If you don't hear from her you can contact her but if that call or contact didn't go so well then you need to move on.
Author thewrongonee Posted September 28, 2013 Author Posted September 28, 2013 Pull in your gut and take a deep breath and just back down a bit. Let her contact you and see how it goes from there. See what her intent with you is? If you don't hear from her you can contact her but if that call or contact didn't go so well then you need to move on. Yeah but for somereason i dont want to see a text or a call by her. I shut my phone off for now, got some sleep but i have to turn it on soon. Feeling pretty bummed right now, sucks, i thought things were going perfectly.
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