Christiedrew Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Well me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I recently got a message from his brother saying he wanted to see me, he wanted pics of me and wanted to kno where I lived. I haven't heard from his brother in many, many years and now all of the sudden he wants to see me. Of course I got a little frustrated and asked my ex if he talked to his brother and told him about us? I thought maybe they were playing sick games with me lol. Well after I texted him and asked if he talked to his brother, he called me. He was extremely nasty and pure mean to me! He cursed me out and told me to never call him or text him again and he didn't care what I done with my life. He said he has had nothing to do with his brother in years and he didn't give a sh*t what I done, just never contact him in anyway again. I don't understand, he talked about marrying me, having kids, he looked me straight in the face and told me he loved me about a month ago to just being someone I didn't even recognize today....This was the first time I've even contacted him in a month. Why is he being so mean? My friend thinks he'll regrets what he's said later but I don't think so, because of how cold hearted he was. He broke up with me.... So my question is why is he being so heartless and mean? Will he regret being so mean?
melell Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 I think dumpers get frustrated, and it is easier for them to come down hard on the ex. Everytime he thinks of you it will annoy him. I think some people have the mentality that dumping someone means everything will just stop. Don't take it personally, but really move on, because it sounds like that is exactly what he is doing.
Kizza Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 First of all .... the person we break up with is never the person we were in a relationship with. He is probably using anger as a coping mechanism, don't take it personally. It is sometimes easier to be angry with someone in a break up than to just admit they don't love you.
Author Christiedrew Posted September 28, 2013 Author Posted September 28, 2013 I by no means, want him back at all lol. I was even nice to him when he called. I think he was drinking also. He was just so heartless and mean, I just wandered if he would regret saying some of the stuff he said lol. I have moved on, I'm actually seeing someone at the moment. But of course he will always have a small place in my heart:( he told me to never contact him on FB or anything so I told him I would just delete him when I got off the phone. He said "fu*king great, do it!" But I haven't just yet. I noticed he was on FB literally all night long though, from 12pm to 6am. He is hardly ever on there at all so that was kinda weird. I figured he would have deleted me but he hasn't so I guess I'll delete him today sometime. Do you think he said all of those things out of anger because he's hurting to? How long does it take for some people to realize what they had was great but now its gone? Or maybe he really does literally hate me lol.
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