napy666 Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 As they always say it's just a number right? Me I enjoy going to concerts but most of my shows are ALL AGES so if I were to befriend a guy or a girl it's a good possibility that they were underage. IF I did find a guy to my liking and he was 17 years old going on 18 do you think him and I dating would be a good idea? I know friends and family have told me not to date minors because of all of the news reports of minors and adults getting arrested for words being said or them having sex etc. Have you ever dated someone younger than you or you yourself at a young age dated someone older?
MissBee Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 (edited) How old are you? I would never date someone underaged. The main reason, besides the illegal nature of it, is that I can't for the life of me imagine how I would have anything in common with a teenager on a dating level. However, if you yourself are say 18 to even 21 I could sort of understand how dating a 17 year old may not be a huge stretch. When I was underaged I did have older guys date me and now I think something had to be wrong with them to even do that. I was mature and all that but still...they should have walked away from the situation and not pursue it when they realized I was underage. Edited September 28, 2013 by MissBee
MrCastle Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 I'm 25 and won't date anybody under 21. In fact I have an issue with even that. Girls in my age range (23-26) are largely still very immature and difficult. It's hard for me to go lower than that. I don't see teenagers in a sexual light at all. 18 and 19 to me may as well be 11 and 12.
Carenth Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 If you are more than a year or two older then I would say no. I really don't see the appeal of dating someone so young. In my eyes they are children and do not appeal to me at all not to mention most are immature as hell because they are still children. I will not date anyone under the age of 21 and even then that is a hard pill to swallow in most cases. I don't like to generalize but I've noticed guys in particular who are well into their twenties or older who consistently date people who are around 18 years old or younger. Are one or more of the following. 1) Can't handle women their own age and are looking for someone naive about the ways of the world. 2) Sex. 3) Kiddy fiddlers. 1
MalachiX Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Sounds like a terrible idea. I dated someone who was 21 when I was 26 and I dated someone who was 23 when I was 29. That's the youngest I've gone and even those had some issues as far as maturity was concerned.
Author napy666 Posted September 28, 2013 Author Posted September 28, 2013 Sounds like a terrible idea. I dated someone who was 21 when I was 26 and I dated someone who was 23 when I was 29. That's the youngest I've gone and even those had some issues as far as maturity was concerned. Oh what happened?
coolheadal Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Everyone has their own wants. I won't date anyone my own age as they are too set in their ways. Most of them seem out of it in a way in their mind-set and behavior. Nothing to do with anything you have posted on that list. There are plenty of women who would want older men and the opposite goes for men who would want younger women and some older ones too. Base on their age gap. One of our friends she's 20 and her 3 month dating boy friend is 28. That's only 8 years apart. I still feel that she's not right there yet for for him. He's talking about having kids already. She's not ready for kids nor marriage as just turned 20 this year and two Leo's. Interesting pair.
crederer Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 Well I don't think there is a problem from a legal perspective. But I dated a couple girls since my ex that were 19-21 and the maturity level for them was not up to my standards. I'm 26.
crederer Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 What do you mean? She might just be 19 or something, which isn't that big of a deal.
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