SonnyAli Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I've been stuck in this cycle with a girl for a while. We dated in high school and first couple years of college. She went to a school in another state and broke up with me 2 years ago for another guy. Then she moved back home and immediately started this cycle of "she loves me" then won't talk to me for weeks. We physically cannot be around each other and not want each other. If I don't talk to her for a while she acts like she really misses me then we end up having sex and we will talk for a couple weeks but then she disappears again. I've gotten good at playing this game. She doesn't know she hurts me anymore but I hate feeling like I hurt her. When we don't talk for a while or I don't respond to every text she sends shel ask if I'm mad at her. I tell her no. I hate this I love this girl more than anything in the world but I want out of this wheel. I'd rather keep missing her than be the one fulfilling her ego every time she misses me.
Author SonnyAli Posted September 27, 2013 Author Posted September 27, 2013 I should also add that I'm not miserable or anything when were not talking. Actually the most miserable part besides right when she disappears is right when she contacts me again and I feel like I've hurt her.
Polak Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 Sounds like she's just playing a game. Get out of the wheel, as you called it. A relationship is not a recurring cycle; it's a continuous journey. Whatever the hell is happening here doesn't sound very beneficial.
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