She told me she has a boyfriend then later offers me her #

[SJC2008]

Long story shor I asked a classmate to lunch after class yesterday and she accepts. We shoot the shyt, she slips the BF into the convo and when I'm walking her back to class she asks if I have her number, I say no and she gives it to me. She's very busy with work and shcool as I've asked her to study with a friend and myself but her shed won't allow. She knows my friend and has his #. Anyway, I'm wondering why she offered her number if she's to busy to study with us and already has at least one contact in the class in my friend. Just diappointed and frustrated that's all.

[MrCastle]

Just as a friend.

[sickpuppy]

Long story shor I asked a classmate to lunch after class yesterday and she accepts. We shoot the shyt, she slips the BF into the convo and when I'm walking her back to class she asks if I have her number, I say no and she gives it to me. She's very busy with work and shcool as I've asked her to study with a friend and myself but her shed won't allow. She knows my friend and has his #. Anyway, I'm wondering why she offered her number if she's to busy to study with us and already has at least one contact in the class in my friend. Just diappointed and frustrated that's all.

 

 

She's looking for future options and or "hang arounds" to use in case she has a fight with her boyfriend. (they may be fine now.)

 

The girl sounds insecure and needs to have a bunch of guy friends in her contact list to feel "better" in case of emergency (for ego stroking) to which she'd run back to her boyfriend if they had a fight regardless.

 

Most girls play that way these days. With facebook, twitter etc. (the need to have as many friends as they can and followers) it teaches them to have an extensive contact list in their phones and to be like children who need their hands held by these same "friends" they can fall back on/ use if something goes wrong.

 

Keep her number but don't bother with her. If she eventually comes on to you do things on your terms. If she doesn't like it? Then drop her for good. Period.

[D-Lish]

Just as a friend.

 

For sure, just as a friend.

 

Girls don't think the same way guys do- they really don't!

[MrCastle]

For sure, just as a friend.

 

Girls don't think the same way guys do- they really don't!

 

I was going to mention that.

 

Guys -- I'll be honest, if women don't already know (they should) -- guys take anything and everything as "she wants the D." It really is that simple. Every interaction with a female is a potential for you to bang her. That's how we see it. The porn industry and almost every industry geared towards the male demo fits that mold. "Oh pizza delivery boy, I don't have any money...how can I pay you..."

 

And I will be honest, through all my experiences and knowing better, I do this as well. Every chick I talk to, in my mind, is a girl that is giving me signals that she wants the D. (She said hello to me. Hello is two syllables. Takes more work to say than "hi." That's it. She just signed up for the D.)

 

So while this girl may honestly think "hey, he is a nice guy, I will get his number" we're thinking "man, this girl is ready for the D! Why else would she want our number?!"

[SJC2008]

I was going to mention that.

 

Guys -- I'll be honest, if women don't already know (they should) -- guys take anything and everything as "she wants the D." It really is that simple. Every interaction with a female is a potential for you to bang her. That's how we see it. The porn industry and almost every industry geared towards the male demo fits that mold. "Oh pizza delivery boy, I don't have any money...how can I pay you..."

 

And I will be honest, through all my experiences and knowing better, I do this as well. Every chick I talk to, in my mind, is a girl that is giving me signals that she wants the D. (She said hello to me. Hello is two syllables. Takes more work to say than "hi." That's it. She just signed up for the D.)

 

So while this girl may honestly think "hey, he is a nice guy, I will get his number" we're thinking "man, this girl is ready for the D! Why else would she want our number?!"

 

Good point as always MC. Her offering her number gave me a "Hmm?" moment that would be applicable to your last paragraph lol! TBS I'm done since she's got a BF and I don't do the friend zone. When we parted ways I said "Alright buddy" lol.

[hppr]

She might have a boyfriend, she might be single and have just thrown that out there to see what you'd do.

 

Just play it cool, talk to her etc but don't get your hopes up.

 

Really, until you have sex with a girl you have no idea where you stand with her. So don't worry over it.

[D-Lish]

As a woman, I often think "buddy"- simply because that's the way my brain works. I can be "buddies" with males, females, old people, gays, kids, co-workers... It feels harmless, innocuous.

 

If I am attracted to someone, I can't look them in the eye. I get so shy and flustered that I avert a gaze.

 

All I can tell you, from a female perspective, is that what you are thinking is different from what we are thinking.

[carhill]

Since she's interested in being 'friends', did she ask for your number so she could call you and 'hang out'? How often does she contact your buddy to 'hang out' and do 'friend' stuff? Just curious.

[truth_seeker]

She's looking for future options and or "hang arounds" to use in case she has a fight with her boyfriend. (they may be fine now.)

 

The girl sounds insecure and needs to have a bunch of guy friends in her contact list to feel "better" in case of emergency (for ego stroking) to which she'd run back to her boyfriend if they had a fight regardless.

 

Most girls play that way these days. With facebook, twitter etc. (the need to have as many friends as they can and followers) it teaches them to have an extensive contact list in their phones and to be like children who need their hands held by these same "friends" they can fall back on/ use if something goes wrong.

 

Keep her number but don't bother with her. If she eventually comes on to you do things on your terms. If she doesn't like it? Then drop her for good. Period.

 

You hit the nail on the head.

 

Looking for options. She's someone you can't trust; only hook up with.

[truth_seeker]

You noticed the title there?

 

''Boyfriend.''

 

it wasn't ''Husband.''

 

''Boyfriend'' is a temporary position that many men fill up during a woman's lifetime. ''Boyfriend'' is a placeholder, he's there fulfilling her needs and wants until someone better comes along, then the ''boyfriend'' title is transfered to the new guy and he becomes her current man. Don't worry about that.

 

Most women have boyfriends. Very rarely will you meet a woman who is single and not obese/mother of 2 kids, and the few decent-looking women without a relationship are doing FWB until a man is appealing enough to become her boyfriend.

 

Don't let that stop you. Show her what you got and if she decides you are good enough, she'll dump her boyfriend. Or you can go at it in an alternative manner. Become her FWB. She won't bother you, you won't have to deal with her problems and needs and you'll get sex for free.

 

Stop limitating yourself to women who appear single.

 

I love your thinking!

 

On the flip side, though, girls who go from guy to guy can never be trusted

[sickpuppy]

You hit the nail on the head.

 

Looking for options. She's someone you can't trust; only hook up with.

 

 

Of course! lol. I know how these chicks operate nowadays. They'll even justify it as their "guy friends" or simply "friends" contact list which is a plausible deniability half truth if they got caught or outed by someone.

 

They'll have the guy friends whom they use simply to fill their contacts list, the guy friends whom they can use as emotinal tampons, and the guys they can secretly flirt with and cheat when something goes wrong with their boyfriend or leave him for them.

 

There's a ton of selfish and insecure people out there these days who have learned from twitter, facebook etc. that they need to have a good amount of "Friends" to look cool and have some sort of social "status" even if they barely ever talk to most of them. Hollywood lifestyle promotes this as the actors/actresses have tons of followers. So the "normal" people can have the same thing with facebook and twitter etc. which then goes to their cell phone contact list for numbers.

 

A person like this will pick and choose who to date off of it or get pump and dumped while they can maintain the half "truth" that it's all about "friends" and being "social".

 

What these same people don't realize is (nor seem to care even if so) is that the same people they are doing that to are doing it to everyone else. Adding as many contacts as they can to fill a void in their everyday mundane lives as they really don't do anything more than anyone else and are like spoiled children who constantly need to be held, kept in touch with, use others as they use them for the ego stroking and "validation" like they are some psuedo-"celebrity".

 

This girl in the O.P's case is one of those many people. Has a boyfriend yet will give her number out to as many guys who aren't complete creeps who ask for it. It means little though especially since she has a boyfriend. These same types of women are deathly afraid of being alone and most likely jump from guy to guy as soon as a relationship ends or if they can't find one who wants them and their ex doesn't want them back will use their other guy "friends" as girlfriends and string them along till the next best thing comes along.

 

Some will even "complain" about others who do the SAME thing they know they themselves are doing! lol. It's like they know they are insecure themselves but have some irresistable need to "complain" in public about "others" who are doing what they themselves do to seem like they "aren't like that" while at the same time getting more attention from those they not only "complain" about who also "agree" with them but from people who actually take them serious. Like an alcoholic "complaining" about alcoholics TO alcoholics as well as people who don't drink who all agree with them. Yet the alcoholics all drink regardless and the non-drinkers agree too because they aren't aware of their game. It's hilarious.

 

I've seen it with many people these days and I don't buy any of their nonsense.

[sickpuppy]

I love your thinking!

 

On the flip side, though, girls who go from guy to guy can never be trusted

 

 

Problem is most people are insecure no matter how confident or sane they may seem. These days they are brainwashed that they need to have as many "friends" as they can or they aren't the "Celebrity All-Star" they'd like to live vicariously through.

 

They also jump from guy to guy as they are afraid of not having a real boyfriend all the time as their "friends" are doing the same thing. It's like perfect sheep control when you think about it. That's why so many people will say they like their freedom yet oddly enough aren't secure on their own. "I don't want to be controlled by anyone!" Yet they GLADLY will throw out their numbers to almost anyone who asks, post every minute detail and thought of their mundane everyday lives and or drama online with their information, NEED to have the most twitter followers, NEED to always have a boyfriend etc.

 

These types of people are the sheep of society. The constant need for validation, ego stroking, and hand holding shows they are weak and not to be trusted at all. Take that "drug" away from them and watch them completely fall apart with no clue of how to actually feel better about themsleves. It's only fake dressed up "confidence".

 

I'm sure there are people in high places taking some serious notes on how people these days are prone to act and what they need for their "fix".

[TB Rhine]

People tend to project their own thinking onto others. Guys don't understand how women operate, because we KNOW, at all times, whether we'd want to get with a girl or not, and we'd never keep a girl around purely to get rides from once in a while (car rides I'm talking about - get your minds out the gutter), or to buy us some free Starbucks now and again, or whatnot.

 

True story - I've actually TRIED to do this. I've said to myself - I'm not really into this girl, but she seems nice, and I wouldn't mind talking with her about [insert some writer or TV show we both like], and hell, if nothing else it might be useful to have her around in case I need a favor or something. I literally couldn't do it. And it wasn't conscience thing either... I just couldn't muster the motivation to pick up the phone and call these girls, or even message them on Facebook. If I'm not into them, it's like they don't exist.

[sickpuppy]

People tend to project their own thinking onto others. Guys don't understand how women operate, because we KNOW, at all times, whether we'd want to get with a girl or not, and we'd never keep a girl around purely to get rides from once in a while (car rides I'm talking about - get your minds out the gutter), or to buy us some free Starbucks now and again, or whatnot.

 

True story - I've actually TRIED to do this. I've said to myself - I'm not really into this girl, but she seems nice, and I wouldn't mind talking with her about [insert some writer or TV show we both like], and hell, if nothing else it might be useful to have her around in case I need a favor or something. I literally couldn't do it. And it wasn't conscience thing either... I just couldn't muster the motivation to pick up the phone and call these girls, or even message them on Facebook. If I'm not into them, it's like they don't exist.

 

There are dudes who completely use women too. Don't get it twisted.

 

Most women will branch swing to the next best thing given the option.

 

And it's to do with the guys looks, social status (how good he'll make THEM look), how "bad boy" he's perceived, how much he makes, a combination of all or some.

 

These same women will "complain" about others doing it yet are drawn like a drug addicted sheep to do the same thing they are "complaining" about for attention and the NEED to have someone in their lives at all times as if they are a broken person by themselves. They need to be "completed" by someone else.

 

It's better to take two complete people on their own to become one than to take two broken people who need to "complete" each other as even if they become one they are still broken.

 

Take the white knight, or the chick who wants some bad boy challenge for example: They want to fix some broken person and make themselves feel appreciated for THEMSELVES. It doesn't work as that same person they think in their subconcious they are owed some sort of debt of gratitude for them "helping" the broken person who in turn actually starts to RESENT them knowing that they wouldn't do that for them and that their "helper" is only doing that to make them eventually feel "guilty" or under some sort of "I helped you" control.

 

 

It's like the reason I wouldn't cheat on any woman I've ever dated or will date. (It's not even a quality that is truly valued these days. Just one that sounds good to hear.) I'm not doing it as some sort of "You owe me", guilt trip later on,or "I'm better than you." move. It's simply because I'm confident in myself, have strength, character, and integrity for myself and not needed to do it to "impress" someone else nor hold it over their head regardless of what they'd do. If I ever felt the need to cheat we would simply talk and then move on from each other. Because I'm the type who really IS confident on my own.

 

You won't find many people like that these days.

Edited September 27, 2013 by sickpuppy

[truth_seeker]

People tend to project their own thinking onto others. Guys don't understand how women operate, because we KNOW, at all times, whether we'd want to get with a girl or not, and we'd never keep a girl around purely to get rides from once in a while (car rides I'm talking about - get your minds out the gutter), or to buy us some free Starbucks now and again, or whatnot.

 

True story - I've actually TRIED to do this. I've said to myself - I'm not really into this girl, but she seems nice, and I wouldn't mind talking with her about [insert some writer or TV show we both like], and hell, if nothing else it might be useful to have her around in case I need a favor or something. I literally couldn't do it. And it wasn't conscience thing either... I just couldn't muster the motivation to pick up the phone and call these girls, or even message them on Facebook. If I'm not into them, it's like they don't exist.

 

I'm the exact same way. I have no desire to be friends with women. I've tried it before and eventually they expect more from me. If I don't step up, I get the cold shoulder.

 

Puppy is right: women today want guy friends to make them feel secure, give them emotional support and be there as a sex option until they meet a guy they really like.

[iris219]

I was going to mention that.

 

Guys -- I'll be honest, if women don't already know (they should) -- guys take anything and everything as "she wants the D." It really is that simple. Every interaction with a female is a potential for you to bang her. That's how we see it. The porn industry and almost every industry geared towards the male demo fits that mold. "Oh pizza delivery boy, I don't have any money...how can I pay you..."

 

And I will be honest, through all my experiences and knowing better, I do this as well. Every chick I talk to, in my mind, is a girl that is giving me signals that she wants the D. (She said hello to me. Hello is two syllables. Takes more work to say than "hi." That's it. She just signed up for the D.)

 

So while this girl may honestly think "hey, he is a nice guy, I will get his number" we're thinking "man, this girl is ready for the D! Why else would she want our number?!"

 

Please, please tell me this isn't true. Please tell me you're exaggerating.

 

I refuse to believe all (or even most) men are like this.

[sickpuppy]

I'm the exact same way. I have no desire to be friends with women. I've tried it before and eventually they expect more from me. If I don't step up, I get the cold shoulder.

 

Puppy is right: women today want guy friends to make them feel secure, give them emotional support and be there as a sex option until they meet a guy they really like.

 

Let a girl have her one "real man". Take away all her other "male friends" watch how no matter how great and with social status, looks etc the guy she is dating is and that girl will fall apart and start looking for more male friends for a support network.

 

I've seen it far too many times. If I were a real ahole I'd play the hell out of them. It would be too easy. Though I simply have better things to do in my life than to waste on that nonsense.

 

I find it hilarious the "complaining" though about teh "playaz". I immediately shut that down by walking away thinking: "Cool story bro!".

 

You simply start to see those types as simple poor, lost souls who're not worth your time, beyond help/ don't want help (not that anyone should bother trying to help them), and the last types you'd ever want after they "learned their lesson". Let someone else claim that "prize".

Edited September 27, 2013 by sickpuppy

[sickpuppy]

I agree, and the dudes who keep trying to get laid by pretending to be friends are the most patethic of them all. Women are expected to be vain. I don't hold that against them. If I was by default a God as soon as the opposite sex reached the age of 13, I too would have the huge hubris so many women have, but I find it both hilarious and infuriating how there are so many guys who think that being a woman's friend is the right path to one day be in a relationship with her.

 

Dude, I know one guy who only sits with the girls. He's a self-professed Casanova. All of the guys hang out together, he only talks to the girls and sits and eats with them. I'm sure that'll make the women look at him in a different light. He's not even a low-status male in the male hierarchy, but hey. Maybe if I listen to her long enough, maybe if I'm there when her boyfriend pumps and dumps her, she'll look at me like I'm 2013's Carey Grant.

 

RIGHT? LOL.

 

Reminds me of how when I was 18 I dated this girl same age. She had the typical ''I'm attractive but I'm not as attractive as my best friend so I am not attractive at all, and I need attention to feed my self-esteem!'' type. She had tons of guys being her ''friends.''

 

She told me one of the reasons she got over her insecurites was how well her guy friends treated her. Then she told me no guy was interested in her.

 

lol, honey, you had plenty of guys interested in you. They simply didn't make your 'gina tingle .

 

 

 

You've hit the head on the nail. Most women nowadays 18-35 collect guy friends. ''He's my friend, you have nothing to worry about.'' Until he's no longer good enough and its time to find a new boyfriend. That's how many women recruit guy friends. They make it appear as if they're interested in the guy.

 

They give IOI's, encourage the guy to chat her up, they smile, giggle, and make the guy feel like he has a chance, then he asks her out and he's denied and put in the back-burner. ''Now you haz to prove yourself as my friendzzzz.'' When she says that the dude is already emotionally attached to her and won't jump ship looking for a new girl.

 

Last week I was hanging out in one of the benches inside my college. Some dudes from another major arrive and I was observing how even the ugliest of the women had guys, decent looking guys, giving her the boyfriend treatment. Hugs, affection, sweet words, the whole nine yards. Damn, where do I apply for this? Its like they can get their emotional needs and attention needs satisfied by the men they aren't attracted to, then put out for the men who make the gina tingles.

 

Wat.

 

Yes. What value do these "Special snowflakes" bring to a mans life? Let me trip over myself to be "friends" with the chicks who pull the nonsense we're talking about. LMFAO. Ya. Ok!

 

It's funny about the IOI's also, laughing acting interested etc. Some will even "agree" to go out with you and run the whole "legit" excuse game when it's time to step up or step off.

 

Even at that point when they are called out so to speak (not literally) for their nonsense they then try to do some weak azz tactic to "save face" for themselves ONLY and their friends approval to look like a "good" person rather than simply saying they aren't interested. (must be some Cosmo article they read) Of course they'll claim they do that as too many guys get mad if they get turned down.

 

IE: Ask one out.

 

She gives you a not really interested "yes" as in just saying yes for the time being.

 

You sense she really isn't interested and don't bother asking again.

 

The fun part is watching them squirm at the last minute looking for an excuse you've never even asked for! It's like they simply cannot take it that you might be on to their game and they NEED to have some sort of "legit" excuse to hand you. While not counter offering, and or giving other nonsense with their legit excuse. (Like pulling something at the last minute for an event you don't want to attend then going through all that extra stuff just to pretty much say you weren't ever really interested in the first place.) All that work to say you aren't interested. It's hilarious!

 

Yet it isn't even about you. It's about them doing it as a "good look" for themselves.

 

 

This is why the most "successful" guys with women use them better at their own game.

 

They gather the most women they can get and pump and dump them or string them along after ****ing them ASAP. They keep the other women as "friends" whom they've gone after as well using them as competition anxiety props.

 

Bang as many chicks ASAP.

 

Get as many as you can to use for your own "friends".

 

And then amplify it on them the same way they treat the other dudes whom the girls aren't interested in but for attention.

 

It's what women actually crave and respond to. The drama, the feelings of "love" it gives them, the competition, the "real man", the gossip about their dysfunctional lives etc. It's like crack to them and they need that drug.

 

These same women crave attention from other men they don't want simply for having their hand held and nothing more because they themselves are dysfunctional and may never use self reflection nor care too. There's no feeling sorry for them nor wasting time listening to them or anything else. Period.

 

 

You either let them play themselves while you let yourself look clueless to it all and bounce, or flip things around and you pump and dump them. But never feel sorry for them.

 

 

The funny thing is I don't sit around thinking or dwelling on the stuff I know. I'm one of the most laid back dudes but I am far faaar ahead of the game. The key is to never let on in person. Never tell in person. Period. You simply let those who think they are out gaming you play THEMSELVES while you ALWAYS remain calm and play the oblivious role. It works like a charm.

 

You just have to be prepared to "lose" if you aren't the type to use people just so you can feel better about yourself because you "got some". The Pvzzy doesn't and never did control me. You also have to have confidence enough to know you might "lose" in the end and still be on your own but just learn and grow from the experience and move on to someone who isn't playing destructive games or other nonsense.

Edited September 27, 2013 by sickpuppy

[mtber75]

She in the process of or thinking of breaking up with her bf! So if you like the drama that accompanies rebound girls than go for it! Good luck!

[sickpuppy]

Yeah, that's why so many men fail with women. They honestly believe the women have decent feelings or that the women can develop feelings for them. Most of the women I've met - even the below average- had had decent looking chaps with great personalities interested in them, but they insist on going after the Alpha male, the Douchebag with money and the bad boy who might happen to be bald/short/obese or whatever but how it treats women turns them on, and when one woman sees you as attractive, many more are going to want a piece of that.

 

They key is to learn from these types off so-called "bad boys" good qualities but always remain true to yourself. If you even MENTION it you automatically are placed in the "not good with women, a whiner etc." catagory. You simply observe and NEVER let on. Like the absolute best leader who knows the clowns when he sees them but never lets on. Sht I'm a better bad boy than the baddest bad boy (key word BOY) these chicks are attracted to. I see these types as lost souls who might possibly never realize what a real "bad" MAN is. And frig it I'd never waste my time with those types later on. (Though if I were a user I'd continue letting them play themselves and then if able to pump and dump them like they're used to.) I'm badder as they cannot control me and I have no desire to control anyone else either. I'll simply remove myself from the situation.

 

 

 

Its a waste of time to invest emotions on women. They can get any man they want. They can act like victims and acquire a ton of approval and attention. What about me? If I get hit by a car, sucks to be you buddy. The other day I watched as a woman needed a smoke. One guy walks buy, she asks for one, he complies.

 

Then she needed a lighter. She stops the next chump. It was time to make a phone call. Hey, is that a cell phone I see on you, mister? Can I use it? Lmao, most people won't even make eye contact with me because I mightz be a rapistzzzzz!!! but everything is thrown at women

 

Those types of "women" are clowns. It's easy to spot them. And not easy to feel sorry for them at all.

 

Anyway, returning to the topic. My favorite part is when you make a move on the woman, she gets all agitated ''WAIT WHAT DO YOU WANT,'' acts like a complete douche to you, you retreat, but she'll check you out whenever she can and is always paying attention to what you do and say.

 

If her ''guy friends'' orbiters aren't around she'll approach you to get a bit of attention. Tease her, don't pay her attention and she'll grow mad at you over that. Pay her attention, she gets mad. Ask her out, She gets mad. Don't talk to her, she gets mad. As soon as she loses that tight body of hers she's gonna have a hard time finding a guy who'll put up with her BS, not even the orbiters will be around, and its funny how they're so young and already have the b1tch shield look when a guy who doesn't make her gina tingle shows an interest in her.

 

Geez, I thought we'd left that back in HS when we would spend most of our time acting like their QuarterBack Boyfriend was a douche? lol

 

 

Of course they'll continue to "Check you out" after they play their nonsense. They need to feel a sense of "accomplishment" that whatever they thought they were pulling actually worked and has you affected.

 

The key is to ignore them. If you HAVE to interact with them keep it quick and coridal. Like an old "friend" and keep it moving. They'll stop when the next best thing comes along to stir up some "excitement, drama, and juicy gossip" with their friends and new male orbiters.

 

Why care about people who don't care about you? Let them live their satisfying lives.

 

 

You may even eventually run into these same people down the line and think to yourself: "Damn what in God's name was I thinking!" lol

Edited September 27, 2013 by sickpuppy

[SJC2008]

They'll have the guy friends whom they use simply to fill their contacts list, the guy friends whom they can use as emotinal tampons, and the guys they can secretly flirt with and cheat when something goes wrong with their boyfriend or leave him for them.

 

Either way it was good to get the experience of getting out of my comfort zone as I've never asked a woman in school to go do somethig after class. Also, it was good practice for me to not being a yes man. When I asked her if she wanted to eat she said she was hungry so I suggested a place. When I suggested the place she didn't say no but said she hardly goes there and made it sound like she didn't want to go there. I stuck with with it and when we were in line she said she wasn't hungry?? I didn't say anything and a little bit later she said she'll get something to go to snack on later.

 

Anyway, after she dropped the BF line on me I asked a little bit about him to act like I didn't care... After we ate we had sime time before our next class and I asked her if she was ready becuase I had to go meet a friend a little later and she said she had some time so I said sarctically that we could talk about her bf the rest of the day lol and she said we can talk about something else. At least she'll know not to text me for "support" if they have problems.

[c57dood]

Either way it was good to get the experience of getting out of my comfort zone as I've never asked a woman in school to go do somethig after class. Also, it was good practice for me to not being a yes man. When I asked her if she wanted to eat she said she was hungry so I suggested a place. When I suggested the place she didn't say no but said she hardly goes there and made it sound like she didn't want to go there. I stuck with with it and when we were in line she said she wasn't hungry?? I didn't say anything and a little bit later she said she'll get something to go to snack on later.

 

Anyway, after she dropped the BF line on me I asked a little bit about him to act like I didn't care... After we ate we had sime time before our next class and I asked her if she was ready becuase I had to go meet a friend a little later and she said she had some time so I said sarctically that we could talk about her bf the rest of the day lol and she said we can talk about something else. At least she'll know not to text me for "support" if they have problems.

 

As soon as you hear the boyfriend/husband word, move on. Stop wasting thoughts and time on this stupid girl. She's a dime a dozen, but because you're desperate you see her as something she's not.

 

That's why all these girls can manipulate men like animals because they know their appearance is what evokes a physical (often reflexive) reaction in men.

 

You see, women get what they want by how they look, whereas a man gets what he wants by what he can DO or BE.

 

If this were not true, women would not spend so much time on their appearance. Women would not be more friendly with the mirror than they are with other people. They constantly see themselves projected onto the person they are communicating with, just like a mirror.

 

Hence the explosion of "selfies" and constant need for attention and affection from men. All of their worth in the world is based upon a factor with which nature either gives favorably or withholds cruelly: physical beauty.

 

Forget this girl and move on. Find a single girl.