LoverOfDance Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 So I started talking to this guy on Pof(I initiated). He said he has a thing for black girls. A few mins into the conversation, he gave me his phone number and told me to text him. My phone isn't working right now so I explained to him that I can't do that right now unfortunately as my phone is down. We talked for a while online and ended up talking the next day again (I initiated...again). While we were talking, he told me he was studying chemistry. His exact words were - "something WE need to work on". I didn't understand what that meant. My interpretation was that he was trying to say that we didn't have chemistry, I don't know. It seems like a lot of guys that talk to me online are guys that I'm not necessarily attracted to and I don't want to waste their time or mine by replying to them when I know fully well that I'm not attracted. I know ignoring them will hurt but only for a few mins and then they'll get over it. It's better than going on 5 dates with them and then telling them later on that I don't feel any "spark". I haven't spoken to the guy in question today because I'm waiting to see if he'll initiate. He should if he 's interested right? Should I keep waiting, contact him again (for the third time) or just move on? What do you guys think?
sickpuppy Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 So I started talking to this guy on Pof(I initiated). He said he has a thing for black girls. A few mins into the conversation, he gave me his phone number and told me to text him. My phone isn't working right now so I explained to him that I can't do that right now unfortunately as my phone is down. We talked for a while online and ended up talking the next day again (I initiated...again). While we were talking, he told me he was studying chemistry. His exact words were - "something WE need to work on". I didn't understand what that meant. My interpretation was that he was trying to say that we didn't have chemistry, I don't know. It seems like a lot of guys that talk to me online are guys that I'm not necessarily attracted to and I don't want to waste their time or mine by replying to them when I know fully well that I'm not attracted. I know ignoring them will hurt but only for a few mins and then they'll get over it. It's better than going on 5 dates with them and then telling them later on that I don't feel any "spark". I haven't spoken to the guy in question today because I'm waiting to see if he'll initiate. He should if he 's interested right? Should I keep waiting, contact him again (for the third time) or just move on? What do you guys think? So he has a "thing" for black girls. Not seeing you as a girl..But a "black girl" whom he has a "thing" for and needs for the two of you to work on your "chemistry". See where I'm going here? This dude will see you and try to get some while he's doing the same or will do with others he "has a thing for". If you want to get laid. Go for it. Don't expect him to feel any "spark" and decide after he's gotten some he just "didn't feel it". The choice is yours. 1
myothernic2 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 So I started talking to this guy on Pof(I initiated). He said he has a thing for black girls. A few mins into the conversation, he gave me his phone number and told me to text him. My phone isn't working right now so I explained to him that I can't do that right now unfortunately as my phone is down. We talked for a while online and ended up talking the next day again (I initiated...again). While we were talking, he told me he was studying chemistry. His exact words were - "something WE need to work on". I didn't understand what that meant. My interpretation was that he was trying to say that we didn't have chemistry, I don't know. It seems like a lot of guys that talk to me online are guys that I'm not necessarily attracted to and I don't want to waste their time or mine by replying to them when I know fully well that I'm not attracted. I know ignoring them will hurt but only for a few mins and then they'll get over it. It's better than going on 5 dates with them and then telling them later on that I don't feel any "spark". I haven't spoken to the guy in question today because I'm waiting to see if he'll initiate. He should if he 's interested right? Should I keep waiting, contact him again (for the third time) or just move on? What do you guys think? Why would you want someone that has a "thing" for black girls? 1
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