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After 3 months, ex does this.....


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So.... It's been 3 months since the break up after a 5 years relationship.

He hasn't talk to me since the brake up. Not even breadcrumbs. Nothings.

 

This monday he sents a text message to my mom wishing you a happy birthday. Being super nice, writting xoxo's as if nothing ever happened. And yet not even a single word, call to me.

 

 

What is this???? Any ideas??? Please help!!! Should my mom answer???

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Sorry for the spelling mistakes ! Im writting fast and im kind of mad....

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I mean............. 5 years is a long time. I would be petty and say that if he didn't say anything to you on your bday, your mother shouldn't respond out of solidarity.

 

If your bday hasn't passed yet, I guess she should say something brief, like "Thank you :) ".

 

Tough one regarding etiquette - depends on how bad the break up was. If it was decent, then any reply to keep it gracious. As for what it means? I would say that: for you? It means absolutely nothing. Sounds like this guy had a sms to spare and was just trying to be nice with someone he knows for a long time.

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Thank you for your response!! His mom's birthday is coming up and i'm not planning on writting her.... When it's over, it's over. That's my opinion...

 

It braught up so many feelings :( it really hurst !!

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