xsanex Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 When your ex girlfriend refuses to say its over FOREVER even when you ask her to tell you for closure purposes? Also, when she says she is not comfortable talking about anything relating to the relationship, past or present. She did say she is affected by all that is going on (regarding the breakup etc). Any thoughts??
JDPT Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 Details aren't quiet pertaining. What's relevant is that the relationship is over indeed. Your mind is playing tricks on you over thinking something as mundane as choice of words. You make your decision and adhere to it. 4
BC1980 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 When your ex girlfriend refuses to say its over FOREVER even when you ask her to tell you for closure purposes? Also, when she says she is not comfortable talking about anything relating to the relationship, past or present. She did say she is affected by all that is going on (regarding the breakup etc). Any thoughts?? My ex pulled this same sh*t. Saying it's not over forever, but it is for now. Well, it's over for me forever. How about that? Only a truly selfish person has you hanging on to hope like that. They want you around in case they change their minds. Please don't get caught up in this BS. I did this for 4 hellish months of my life. 4 months that I wasted when I could have been in NC and moving on. I look back and want to slap myself. Abandon ship immediately, and go NC. Do agree to be tethered to someone while they decide. 3
Stealth3 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 Hell man, she's not comfortable talking about past and present. Great, don't talk about past and present. Talk about the future. 1) You want her back, tell her how it's going to be. I don't know the situation but if you want her back you tell her how the future will be like. Talk about the things you know. 2) If you don't want her back, **** her and move on, no need for what does this mean and what does that mean. Doesn't matter. It sounds like you want her back, so try comforting her, tell her thank you for everything and then set the future straight. Then let her decide and you walk away, buy yourself some cigars and some whiskey and have some fun. If she plays NC with you for a while, forget about her and never look back. That's my advice. 1
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