Is he done

[Cancer_girl7893]

Sorry for it being so long!!!!

 

Ok I met this guy around 3 months ago. We hit off very well and we told each other that we wasn't going to rush things and take it day by day, which I thought was cool. But we started going on dates 2 weeks unto us talking. He took me to the Cheesecake Factory for my bday and brought me some roses and just really nice stuff. We had went out every weekend for 2 months straight he had told me he don't take girls out and stuff like that. We had s.. 1 month into us dating. But one day out the blue he had heard a rumor about saying that I was a whore and I do whatever for whatever and I'm easy. When I heard this it hurt my feelings but at the same time it didn't because I knew it wasn't true but he said that I wasn't convincing enough. But he said he will continue to talk to me but take things slow for now. And I had asked him does that mean you want to stop talking to me and he said no I'm thinking to much and I left it at that because I don't want to seem obsessed about him. I had also asked him are we moving foreword because I don't want you to waste my time and he responded we're moving slowly. So now I haven't seen him in a month from him being busy with other thinks which is ok because I dont need to see him every weekend. He told me that he doesn't talk to girls longer than 2 months because after a while they appear to be clingy and he like his space. I'm ok with that also. I had talk to him about a week ago and I tested him to see if he still likes me because I'm not the one to express my feelings. (He passed them) but he had told me if I keep thinking the way I do is going to hurt myself. (Whatever that means) he told me that he is not talking to other girls but keeps ignoring my calls and claims he's not getting them. But I haven't spoken with him in a week is he done with me or what? He 22 and I'm 20

[nescafe1982]

....wait. isn't this the same question you posted yesterday?

 

You got some good advice in that thread. Why not refer to it?