kat1012 Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 I think it really depends on how well you and your ex got along before the break-up, how did you guys break up and how you feel about the break-up now. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. I don't think he cheat on me, he prob left me because he just didnt love me anymore. After one month on NC and feeling much better, I asked for my stuff back. I didnt expect him to ask to grab a coffee/drink. I was sorta skeptical if I should grab a drink with him, but in the end I did. Now we are friendly with each other. I ran into him at a bar once and I said "hi" to him first and he invited me to join his table, though I didnt in the end since my friend who's with me hates him. I will reply when he asks me about something e.g. where to get this and that. He will reply too when I asked him for some advice, and he asked me how it went a few days later. He wished me a happy mid-autumn festival, even though I thought he won't give a sh*t about it. I just said "thanks, you too!" I am glad I agreed to grab a drink with him, because it made me realize I don't hate him anymore and I don't really want to date him again. And things aren't awkward between us anymore. 1
AnnaAnna Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 I would be happy he messaged me. I would know he's still thinking about me but I would not reply because I want him to know how it feels to be ignored. 1
love1336x Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 lol, all I can say is, don't. Not responding is truly the best relief. I was mulling responding and telling him to **** off, but he got the same exact message by me not responding to his 3 attempts to "reach out". In fact, it was even better than what he would've felt if I had responded. He can no longer get a rise out of me. He even texted me saying that he knew I was pissed off and he won't contact me again lol. Good! But pissed off is an understatement. No, I am not pissed off. Just plain disgusted. At his behavior during the relationship and then his subsequent emails/texts after the breakup, in which he even had to point out that he was going to Thailand to have a threesome. :confused::confused: Not sure why he thinks that's something I needed to know, as someone who is a stranger to him at this point (or why I needed to know this as his ex-gf or as his ex-f*ck buddy which is what I was for him). Or why he thinks it's such a great thing to boast of...? :confused: Showing off his masculinity? Or something? LOL Ohhh god. He did not sound good at all, very toxic man!!! 1
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