lindsay1990 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 So far, I have read of people not responding to breadcrumbs at all, or playing nice/polite when received. But... I am still wondering if I am the only one who stooped/let my emotions get the best of me and replied angrily and harshly to a breadcrumbs message of the likes of "I love you and I wish you the best". Am I the only one crazy enough that felt this added insult to injury (after asking ex to not contact me ever again) and just fired away?
Mariposa10 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Last time I talked to my ex, I asked him to leave me alone. In the middle of the conversation I told him he was an *******, in the five years we had known each other I had never called him that. Now I kind regret it, I should've called him "selfish prick" that describes him. Other than that I just asked him to leave me alone. I didn't want to make it dramatic, I'm so happy I didn't.
lauri Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 So far, I have read of people not responding to breadcrumbs at all, or playing nice/polite when received. But... I am still wondering if I am the only one who stooped/let my emotions get the best of me and replied angrily and harshly to a breadcrumbs message of the likes of "I love you and I wish you the best". Am I the only one crazy enough that felt this added insult to injury (after asking ex to not contact me ever again) and just fired away? Lindsay, If you do tell him that what will happen is you will only evoke more conversation and drama. You want to avoid drama. I have done something like that when I was 18 after I broke up with my girlfriend in a 3 year relationship...however it didn't do me any good and just kept me angry. Best thing to do is ignore until they finally get it and stop contacting you.
Author lindsay1990 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 Lauri, I did it, ha. Not proud of it but relieved. Basically said the whole "relationship" was at best a sham and at worse a nightmare and to stay the heck away from me and stop being a hypocrite acting all friendly after having treated me like a POS. So... ya know. Just wondering if anybody else has done similar. Why did you regret it? Because it made you angry or because they never contacted you again?
lauri Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Lauri, I did it, ha. Not proud of it but relieved. Basically said the whole "relationship" was at best a sham and at worse a nightmare and to stay the heck away from me and stop being a hypocrite acting all friendly after having treated me like a POS. So... ya know. Just wondering if anybody else has done similar. Why did you regret it? Because it made you angry or because they never contacted you again? I regretted it because I stooped down to their level, and I didn't like knowing that. I don't like holding onto anger as it clouds my judgment too...and she kept messaging me even more after that trying to mask her guilt and convince me to change my mind.
Author lindsay1990 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 Lauri, I see. I wasn't rude, as in I didn't curse but I was extremely disappointed and borderline cruel, even said that "I had lost all respect for him as a person not in a hateful way, but a fearful one." Can't say I regret because I didn't show my a** and I do feel that way, so it's not like I said it out of anger and weeks later feel I have something to take back. Meant every word. Anybody else, or just resentful me?
cavalier99 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I told ny ex to f*ck off. best thing i ever did post BU! Rock on! Cav 2
Author lindsay1990 Posted September 27, 2013 Author Posted September 27, 2013 Ha, I feel the same way. I was too in shock to say anything while I was still at his place, I wasn't thinking straight. What did you say cavalier? I'm just really curious as to how others might have told their exes off!
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