Emma1234 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Is it a bit strange that I feel disgusted by my ex? It's all of a sudden, I just feel cringed out by him, how much he poses etc. he's not bad looking but I just find him repulsive now. I few awful saying it, I'm just confused why I feel this way? Anyone else experienced this or got input?
Mariposa10 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I find my ex disgusting now because I found out he was banging this other girl while he was telling me how much he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me NO ACTIONS though. He's good-looking though, but I would feel bad if he was to kiss/hug me. Did something similar happen to you? 2
Author Emma1234 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 No cheating as far as I know. Left me to 'find himself'. I wonder whether it's all the pain has hurt I have gone through because if him making me feel like that? Or maybe I'm seeing his 'posing' and cocky attitude from at outside point of view? People would comment on these things when I was with him but I never noticed until now.
lindsay1990 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 this happened to me and then today I saw pictures of him and just luuuuuuuuved him all over again. ugh. let's hope the disgust begin to take more ground in me!
reddragon588 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Anger is one of the stages of grief.
Mariposa10 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Anger is one of the stages of grief. Is it the final stage? I'm pretty pissed off. I just want to feel indifferent!
Sugarkane Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I find my ex disgusting now because I found out he was banging this other girl while he was telling me how much he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me NO ACTIONS though. He's good-looking though, but I would feel bad if he was to kiss/hug me. Did something similar happen to you? That's what disgusts me also.
reddragon588 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Is it the final stage? I'm pretty pissed off. I just want to feel indifferent! It is one of the later stages. But it is not a linear process. Just let it play out naturally as hard as it is
KatZee Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I was just thinking this the other day about my ex! I've been over him for a long time now, and I'm not sure what sparked this image in my head, but I was thinking about how we used to have sex, and I actually shuddered when I thought of the idea of him being naked and touching him. Like he actually skeeves me out. It's really weird. 1
lindsay1990 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I was just thinking this the other day about my ex! I've been over him for a long time now, and I'm not sure what sparked this image in my head, but I was thinking about how we used to have sex, and I actually shuddered when I thought of the idea of him being naked and touching him. Like he actually skeeves me out. It's really weird. I'm so jealous. Not being sarcastic.
KatZee Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I'm so jealous. Not being sarcastic. You'll get there eventually. I noticed that this coincided with the time I started sleeping with someone else. Didn't hurt either that this next guy was a thousand times better in bed than my ex ever was. 1
Phoe Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I'm repulsed by one of my exes. The other 2 I am fairly neutral towards.
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