When he "forgets" his toothbrush at your place.

[Cfb770099]

We´ve only hung out like three times and it´s always been here at my place and it has always ended up with sex. At first I though it was just going to be a one night stand (we were at a party together and there was alcohol involved) the second time he came over for a movie and the third we just chatted for an hour and a half or so. Each time he always slept over. Last time he was here he left his toothbrush.

 

At first I thought it was accidental, but then I wrote to him on fb telling him and he didn´t reply back which makes me think it was not accidental at all? Of course it means he expects to be invited over again, but does it also mean he expects I´m not seeing anyone else and wants to bring things further? Cause that would be a problem...since I am seeing someone else. (I haven´t been intimate with the other guy yet, but I know we´ll soon be if I let things flow the way they are flowing now).

 

Help! What should I do?

[henderson14]

Well he probably left his toothbrush so that he doesn't have to bring it over every time you guys shag.

 

I've never heard such a serious question about a toothbrush. Is it made of gold or something? If not, tell him to just write off the $1.00 cost for a new one as a loss on his tax return. Should be a deduction for that. Or you could overnight it to him via FedEx. LOL.

[harrybrown]

Use it to clean the toilet. lol

[Imajerk17]

He probably just forgot it.

 

And if I were this other guy you'd been seeing I'd be pissed that you were banging another dude like this, one that didn't even take you on a single date. I'd be writing you off as "not girlfriend material". I was reading this and wondering, cripes, don't you have any self-respect?

Edited September 26, 2013 by Imajerk17

[nescafe1982]

Throw it out. If you're strictly casual with the guy it's not proper for him to be leaving stuff like that.

 

But on the other hand, I've only ever heard of WOMEN marking new territory with objects like toothbrushes, bobby-pins, or pink razors. It's possible you're overthinking this, that he genuinely forgot it. If there's no significance to it, then tossing it won't be a problem.

[MalachiX]

Please imagine the following statement in a loud, Chris-Rock style voice.

 

DAMN GIRL! WHY YOU GETTIN' ALL CRAZY?!? IT'S JUST A DAMN TOOTH BRUSH!!! 99 CENTS AT CVS! DON'T MEAN YOU MARRIED!

[crederer]

haha yah calm down there. He forgot his tooth brush. I can't see someone using that as an excuse to come back like "uh, hey I forgot my toothbrush, can I come get it?" Cause that would be more embarassing than just straight up asking you to hang out.

[Art_Critic]

The toothbrush means nothing.... it's a toothbrush.

 

When I was single I had a half of a dozen of them in my car for just in case.

 

I would suggest that you look at other actions of his to see if he is interested, the toothbrush isn't a crystal ball into his interest

[sickpuppy]

My ex used to do that starting from after a few dates. lol. She'd "forget" her earrings, hairbrush etc. in my car, then insisted to get me a stuffed animal to put in my back window. I thought it was adorable and liked it.

 

With the O.P. if she doesn't like it just throw it out. She can always buy the guy a new one and let him know she doesn't want things left there.

[snowflakes88]

You are WAY overthinking. Perhaps he just.... forgot it. And perhaps he didn't respond to your message or rush over to get it because.... toothbrushes cost like $2. I also think he wouldn't have ignored your FB message if he were interested in a relationship with you.