tth4 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 My ex split up with me 6 days ago, he told me loved me, but that we argued too much and this would be better in the long run. I accepted it and didn't contact him, but he text me today asking how I was and telling me how much he missed me. I text him back a nice text just saying that I wasn't great but that I hoped he was ok. He told me he felt like crap but that he 'really hoped I was ok'. I now regret not telling him that I miss him too, which I do a lot maybe he would have tried to put things right if I had?
reddragon588 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Just ignore him. Of course he misses you, you were a huge part of each other's lives. But missing someone and wanting to be with them are two different things. 2
lindsay1990 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 He dumped you. He knows you miss him, he is not stupid. The last thing he is wondering is "does she miss me?". You answered what he asked you, and he didn't ask you if you missed him or much less if you want to get back together. Perhaps start ignoring him from now on. 2
organizedchaos Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 My ex split up with me 6 days ago, he told me loved me, but that we argued too much and this would be better in the long run. I accepted it and didn't contact him, but he text me today asking how I was and telling me how much he missed me. I text him back a nice text just saying that I wasn't great but that I hoped he was ok. He told me he felt like crap but that he 'really hoped I was ok'. I now regret not telling him that I miss him too, which I do a lot maybe he would have tried to put things right if I had? He knows you do. It's only been 6 days so it's still a very fresh breakup. See how things go. He'll try to put things right if that's how he feels. That's how I'm going with my situation. 1
Author tth4 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 Thanks for the advice, really needed to hear it. I'm just confused because he split up with me a month ago but asked to get back with me the next day. I made it clear that if he split up with me again it would need to be for good, and I'm just worried that this is the reason that's keeping him from trying to make things right, rather than him not actually wanting to get back with me. But on the other hand, that could just be wishful thinking from me! Just wish he hadn't contacted me at all, it was much easier to focus on getting over him before he told me he missed me and got right back in my head again
lindsay1990 Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 Thanks for the advice, really needed to hear it. I'm just confused because he split up with me a month ago but asked to get back with me the next day. I made it clear that if he split up with me again it would need to be for good, and I'm just worried that this is the reason that's keeping him from trying to make things right, rather than him not actually wanting to get back with me. But on the other hand, that could just be wishful thinking from me! Just wish he hadn't contacted me at all, it was much easier to focus on getting over him before he told me he missed me and got right back in my head again He asked you to get back together before. If he wants to again, he can ask you again.
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