Gave him my number, he didn't text me

[albingma]

I'm a gal in my early forties.Sometimes when I go to the supermarket(coles) I flirt with a guy(about 32) who works there.I think he is a manager.This began about a year ago.For the first month we gave each other long stares but there was no chance for conversation.Then one time I was there it was late at night and no one else was in the checkout area.I saw him standing at checkout but decided to pay through self-serve as I was very tired and felt nervous/shy about being alone with him and creating conversation.But he called out to me "come to checkout didn't you see me?"So I went to checkout.I didn't want him to feel rejected so I told him that I automatically went to self-serve as I was fussy about keeping certain items seperate.Then I began to feel faint and couldn't talk to him anymore, paid and left.Since then he ignored me,no flirting.But a month ago I plucked up some courage and told him "I think you're really handsome".We started flirting again.Last sunday I gave him my number.As I work long hours I only check my phone nights and I have an old outdated phone with no voicemail so under my number I added "please text me as my phone is often switched off". He hasn't texted me.

[Misfortune]

So shy and polite

 

You haven't been back to the store since you gave him your number?

[albingma]

I haven't been back shopping yet but will get some groceries this sunday.

[albingma]

My friends said he'll be put off by my message, but if that's the case then he's not mature enough for me.

[plumpud]

You should watch him with other female customers. He may be just a big flirt with all the ladies and maybe he's married/has a girlfriend?