UndercoverLover62 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 So lately I've been being ignored by my SO. It's getting to the point of where I've thought about ending the relationship because I am not going to be the only one who is trying in the relationship. He has time to go on all his favorite websites, but cant even send a text. Have any of you been in this situation and if so how did/would you handle this?
Zahara Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Don't end it yet. Have you talked to him about it? Expressed your needs? If yes, what did he say? Sometimes they don't even realize what they're doing until you knock them on the head.
CherryT Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 How long are the delays? And I agree with Zahara in expressing your needs to him if you haven't. However, if you feel truly ignored and you're unhappy, you know you don't have to stay in a relationship that doesn't fulfill your needs.
soccerrprp Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 So lately I've been being ignored by my SO. It's getting to the point of where I've thought about ending the relationship because I am not going to be the only one who is trying in the relationship. He has time to go on all his favorite websites, but cant even send a text. Have any of you been in this situation and if so how did/would you handle this? So, you say "lately." Like the others, tell him how you feel, if you haven't. What has changed do you think if this is just a recent phenomenon? Was he attentive prior to this happening and for how long has this been happening?
Author UndercoverLover62 Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 Thank you all for all your advice, I have had the talk with him and made him understand where I am coming from.
lakerman34 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 My ex, she wouldn't respond to text messages, wouldn't send me FB messages, and never wanted to hang out. She was rushing a sorority, and told me she "never had time." Fact is, I saw her apply for a "just for fun" volunteer job, and I know she didn't have to be at these parties ALL night....she had to just show up and be there for an hour, two tops. She could have then come to my room and hang out w/ me by midnight. Instead, she got wasted, and either threw up in her room at 3AM, or she threw up in the guy she was cheating on me with's room at 3AM. I say voice your opinions, and then LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. I didn't listen to mine, wasted A LOT of my precious time. If he says he doesn't have time to hang out or text you, yet you see him doing literally NOTHING or, say, volunteering for a job "just for fun," then it's time to breakup and DON'T LOOK BACK.
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