MauiGirl Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Simple question BUT with a ton of implications! If you did...what happened? If you didn't, tell me why. I chose not too, more because I didn't want to give her the satisfaction that I even gave her another thought. (which we know isn't true ) Also, HB wanted her out of his life...I wasn't about to bring her back in! Right?! I guess what I'm after, is; By you contacting her, did it help with healing process?
Afishwithabike Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I would repost in the Infidelity section. People there have contacted the OW.
RavenWolf Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I contacted the other women. Told them to make themselves scarce since they knew he was married to me and if I saw them anywhere I'd beat the crap out of them. Yes, I did threaten them and I meant it. I was a raging crazy lunatic with vengeance on my mind. One woman I contacted was 19 year old cheer leader who I knew from her emails with soon to be ex husband that she was unaware of him being married. Heck, he even told her he didn't have kids and wanted them some day. (We had a 1.5 year old son and I was preggers with our daughter at this time.) I called her and made him apologize to her for his lies, and victimizing her. I in no way had any ill feelings toward her. I feel the cheating partner and the affair partner are equally responsible unless the affair partner is unaware of the marriage. 2
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