wtfakon2 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I feel like ****. Yesterday, me and my ex talked everything through. She said it's over, there's no second chance at all. So we basically agreed on no contact and it kind of sucks since I work with her. I known her since elementary school. We are really close friends with each. We are both 24 now and it sucks! I feel like I just lost part of my life. Not only my girlfriend but one of my best friends. I don't even know how to cope.
AnyaNova Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I know that everyone's pain is different. But I feel like I am going through something similar. My ex and I were totally opposite personalities, and because of it, we were able to really bring each other new perspectives and make each other laugh and help each other to see things from a totally different place. And losing him really hurts. But he was completely adamant. A friend of mine died last Spring. I know he didn't, but losing him in this manner still has the same effect on me. I am sorry that you are going through this.
coolheadal Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Gone though that in mid 2011 and found this site. Help a lot. I doing the same now here. Best thing to do is give her space. But if she is stubborn like mine was then you going to have to move on. Right now all you can do is go and stay with close friends who know you very well. Also try to watch a comedy show, yet comedy because it can help make you laugh and not worry and get upset. Your intent is to be upset and be sad at the same time. But you would need to make sure you don't fall into that way. Not good for you and your health. Even if you have to jump into your car and drive off to somewhere you find peaceful do that as another option. To blow off steam. We are all here with you on this one so your not alone okay..
Mr Scorpio Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I don't even know how to cope. Keep posting. 1
JoelBarish Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I feel like ****. Yesterday, me and my ex talked everything through. She said it's over, there's no second chance at all. So we basically agreed on no contact and it kind of sucks since I work with her. I known her since elementary school. We are really close friends with each. We are both 24 now and it sucks! I feel like I just lost part of my life. Not only my girlfriend but one of my best friends. I don't even know how to cope. It is really tough brother. Post here as much as you need to. I'm going through a bad break up right now but I have had worse. Posting on the internet and talking to others like me has kept me sane (I think??)
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