lalalovekay Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Okay so I met this guy about two months ago at work but barely started talking two weeks ago. After a few days he says to me "I dont think its a good idea that we keep on talking" all I said was "okay" he then asked if I didnt care and I said it had just been a week. It was no big deal right? Anyways after that he kept flirting with me, telling me he wanted to kiss me and stuff then I asked him why he kept going after he said we should stop. He said because he was just over thinking but he wanted to talk. So we continued. Three days ago we hung out, we kissed and he said "youre mine now okay?" Then he kept calling me babe and stuff. But the next day he didnt really text me. Just a goodmorning. Then on the day after he didnt text me until night saying goodnight. And today I finally saw him at work and he hugged me and called me babe and everything then we went to the park afterwards and we just have a cute little date and he asked if anyone knew about us and I said "not really" he then asked me to take a picture of us and snapchat it to my friends because his friends knew and he wanted my friends to know. After we went to eat with his friends but he acted like if I wasnt even there :/ this was all before noon. He texted me for like five minutes and stopped. Im confused is he into me? Or is he just playing me? What should I do?
Philosoraptor Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 He's into the chase more than he's into you. If you had responded to his comment about not talking with something positive he wouldn't have stuck around. You're in for a lot of games if you waste your time on him.
Author lalalovekay Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 He's into the chase more than he's into you. If you had responded to his comment about not talking with something positive he wouldn't have stuck around. You're in for a lot of games if you waste your time on him. So you recommend for me to stop talking to him or should I tell him something.? I texted him last night saying "thanks for such an amazing day <3" && he never replied
FemmeMystere Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 So you recommend for me to stop talking to him Yes. This guy sounds like an emotional vampire, and you need to cut off his supply. He started right out the gate playing the "push pull" game - first, it wasn't a "good idea" to date you. But when you were nonchalant about that suggestion, it piqued his interest and suddenly he was all over you. Once he believed that he'd won you over and you were "his," he didn't have any incentive to continue pursuing you. The snapchat thing? More fodder for his ego. "This girl is so into me, she's sending pictures of ME to her friends." And ignoring you in front of his friends? Disrespectful. This is the best you'll ever get from him. Knowing that, is he really worth wasting anymore of your time on? He's not interested as you as a person, but as a conquest. A trophy on his mantle. Stop letting him use you to boost his ego. 1
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