napy666 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 What would you do if you had someone message you and tell you they were in the hospital due to a heart condition or some other serious condition like a self harm, or addiction etc. I've had a guy tell me he had a heart issue and was blacking out and needed operations done on him. I don't know but me having to deal with this is already got me thinking I don't want to have to deal with this type of thing haha. What would you do or have you dealt with this thing before?
HeartDesires Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I'm always as supportive as possible to the sick person. Have you never had a serious ailment ? 3
todreaminblue Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 I would go see them ....and be supportive...ask them if they needed anything to bring with me......you dont turn your back on someone who is sick...... for any reason....even if you had a humdinger of a fight a week before...you go see them if you cant deal with a friend who is sick or date or whatever......i would call that fair weather friendship..in other words ....you cant really say that is a friend if that person just wants to know you when everything is peachy.......thats a bit wrong...not someoen to count on...deb 1
EasyHeart Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 Is this someone you're dating or just someone you've traded messages with? If it's the latter, move on but keep the door open for the future. We talk here a lot about emotional unavailability, but potential dating partners also have to be physically available. Someone with a heart condition going into the hospital has way more important things to worry about than dating. 1
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