oldsoul1922 Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 I broke up with her 5 months ago. We dated for a year and he moved literally across the country for me, we were serious. Talked about marriage, ect. I overheard her talking to someone on the phone saying bad things about me, untrue things. Claiming she was "scared, and that I was physically aggressive with her" which was not true at all. I asked her what she was talking about after I overhear the convo and she tries to muster up an excuse for her story to gain sympathy from her friend and ultimately did not have any response. I immediately go no contact. She reaches out to me for about 2 weeks apologizing via text message. Telling me she loves me and that she didn't have any plan to leave and that she didn't know what she was talking about and that she wants me and is very sorry. I continue to ignore her and she eventually moves back to where she was from before moving to be with me (my job transferred me) were both 27 years old to give an age range. Long story short. I never really got any closure. Never got an actual explanation for why she said those things, ect... Do you think she will respond to me of I text her telling her I want to talk to her?
headinthecloud Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Does it really matter? You obviously can't trust her with your heart. The best thing to do is stay NC.
Hoaks Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 A lot of us get no closure at all, no sorry, no final conversation, nothing. Some people just tell lies. They are selfish people. I think you did the right thing and went NC. It's up to her to tell you why she said those things. Let her contact you with a full explanation. But take it from me, once a liar, always a lier.
Author oldsoul1922 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 The thing that really boggles my mind is this... Why would someone turn their own friends against their significant other when they have the intention of staying with that person? Granted, the guy she was talking to in the conversation I overheard lives in a totally different city not near where she is from or where her and I lived. But, why would she even want to do such a thing? When I brought this exact idea up to get upon asking her what it was that she was talking about, she said "I don't know, I doubt I am even really a thought of his very often and I really don't talk to him often at all" implying it doesn't matter what he thinks. But still, why would you wa t to do that? Just to gain sympathy from someone? Is it that fulfilling to have someone feel bad for you thy you must go through these lengths to achieve that treatment? Have you ever known anyone like this?
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