Bonanza Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Hi all! I have posted here before and I'm back! I got into a relationship with my best friend on April 24th of this year and the last five months have passed by so beautifully. He broke up with me on Monday night. He told me that he felt like I was contributing to the relationship more than he was and that he didn't think it was fair to me. And that I deserved better. I spoke to his bestfriend and he told me that my now ex told him that he just didn't feel the connection anymore. And that it wouldn't be fair to keep me in a relationship that was one-sided. I'm heartbroken. I have been crying for two days because I honestly felt like he was the love of my life. He's so beautiful with his personality and I can't imagine going back to just friends. His bestie told me to just wait and see if changes his mind. If he doesn't change his mind, it's done. I don't think I can handle this again. The last time I broke up with someone I had dated for 4 years, I was suicidal.
melell Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I am so sorry you are in this position. I just want to say that it is really important to not let relationships, or lack of, dictate how we feel about ourselves. You have been through this before, you know this process. Hang in there x
Author Bonanza Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 I am so sorry you are in this position. I just want to say that it is really important to not let relationships, or lack of, dictate how we feel about ourselves. You have been through this before, you know this process. Hang in there x I am trying my hardest. I can't understand what I did wrong. How did he fall out of that connection we had? Did I put in too much love? I'm lost
petall Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Sometimes, you just can't understand why. You seek answers, that's natural but you may never get them. Just process the fact he chose to cast you aside, he gave up. That's all the action you need to see. He left, you deserve someone better. Heal and move ahead.
Author Bonanza Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Sometimes, you just can't understand why. You seek answers, that's natural but you may never get them. Just process the fact he chose to cast you aside, he gave up. That's all the action you need to see. He left, you deserve someone better. Heal and move ahead. Is it that easy to leave? To just get up and leave?
petall Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Is it that easy to leave? To just get up and leave? It's not easy for you because you were committed to him and your relationship together. He, for whatever reason, decided he did not want to be with you. He said he wasn't feeling it anymore. I guess he felt it wasn't something you guys could work on since you either have the spark or you don't, so he decided to end things. It bloomin hurts but if he doesn't want to continue, you can't force him.
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