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Is he genuinely into me???


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Known him a year. We have kissed before. The other day we were texting. I said I was shopping for a dress for my birthday. He asked me to send a pic if I find something. Asks if I'm doing anything special for my b day and when the plans are happening. I told him and said he should come. He said he'd put it in his calendar then said he'd def be there. He's called me beautiful several times in the past. Is he interested? He doesn't text everyday so I guess that's why I worry. Sometimes it's several times he won't text. Is he interested

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He may be. Why not ask him out? No reason to sit around wondering when you can do something about it and either get a real date or stop wasting time wondering.

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Known him a year. We have kissed before. The other day we were texting. I said I was shopping for a dress for my birthday. He asked me to send a pic if I find something. Asks if I'm doing anything special for my b day and when the plans are happening. I told him and said he should come. He said he'd put it in his calendar then said he'd def be there. He's called me beautiful several times in the past. Is he interested? He doesn't text everyday so I guess that's why I worry. Sometimes it's several times he won't text. Is he interested

 

If this is what makes you worry, then I have to ask if he doesn't text you everyday out of the blue, or in response to your texts?

 

You can't expect a guy to randomly text you everyday when you're not even going out. If, on the other hand, he's not texting you back, that's something else. In either situation it's not much too worry about. It seems like he's receptive when you actually are texting, so I'd chalk it up to him being busy, which happens to everyone.

 

Try flirting with him more if you are unsure about how he feels. Can't lose anything by trying, and you've already kissed so it's not like you'd be overstepping boundaries.

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It sounds like he might be. See how he acts at your party then maybe ask him if he'd like to do something. You've known him a year so should know his interests. happy bday

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You'll know he's interested when he asks you out on a date. Until then, don't worry about it. It's a non-issue. If he doesn't ask you out...that means he is not interested. It's really very easy.

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