halaluyaa Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 My ex contacted me 2 days ago after 3 months NC by me. We had friendly chat but i was cool and fine. Now i know i dont want her and i am scared to get her back because i am sure she will break up again. It just hurt to think of her with other guy. I was so cool and happy with my life and dreams while talking to her and now i am so close to screw up and give up and call her and say i miss her and think of her now. ****ing feelings.
Philosoraptor Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Trust yourself. You know she will just do the same thing, so why put yourself through it when you could be moving on and eventually find someone you do trust to treat you as well as you treat them?
barky2 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Let her be the one to contact you. Any movement on your side will push her further away. Shes with someone else!! Your feeding her emotional need that the douche isn't full filling. Cut it out now. * internet backhand* Do not speak to her until they are broken up. Understood? No more contact. You say you don't want her. Then what the heck are you doing responding to her? Cut it out. Barky
Author halaluyaa Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Trust yourself. You know she will just do the same thing, so why put yourself through it when you could be moving on and eventually find someone you do trust to treat you as well as you treat them? Hey man, Yes i know she will go distant and do same. Why is it so hard to stick to an îdea that totally make sense? I dont get it. It is obvious that i should stay away from her. Why so hard after 4 months, still. I accepted the break up till she called. And after chat i am all confused again. Maybe she wanted to try and wanted me to ask her out?
malin819 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Hey man, Yes i know she will go distant and do same. Why is it so hard to stick to an îdea that totally make sense? I dont get it. It is obvious that i should stay away from her. Why so hard after 4 months, still. I accepted the break up till she called. And after chat i am all confused again. Maybe she wanted to try and wanted me to ask her out? overthinking buddy her intentions need to be clear cut before you start getting expectations and responding. Trust us on this
Author halaluyaa Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Let her be the one to contact you. Any movement on your side will push her further away. Shes with someone else!! Your feeding her emotional need that the douche isn't full filling. Cut it out now. * internet backhand* Do not speak to her until they are broken up. Understood? No more contact. You say you don't want her. Then what the heck are you doing responding to her? Cut it out. Barky I thnk there is an misunderstanding. She is not with someone now, maybe she is i dont know. But you are right about emotional tampon thing.
Author halaluyaa Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 overthinking buddy her intentions need to be clear cut before you start getting expectations and responding. Trust us on this You mean she should initiate everything right?
barky2 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Oh my b. When you said thought of her with another guy thought you meant she has someone. Barky
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