lissa90 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Ive have been with this guy for 9 weeks and everything was going great. Intially i was unsure of him because he wasn't my type, but he made me laugh so much and thus attraction grew. Fast forward and to last week and i started to notice he had become a little withdrawn, i asked him what was wrong and he maintained it he was fine. i continued on still with that doubt he wasn't okay until Monday when i finally called him out on it. He ended up saying he wasn't sure if he was ready to be in " relationship mode" and that he needed time to think. (bearing in mind we both said we weren't looking for anything casual). We didn't speak for a day and then i broke saying that i couldn't wait for someone to decide if they want to be with me and usually when a guy says he needs time/isnt sure then it usually means they just don't want to be with you. Plain and simple. i haven't herd from since that. Did i do the right thing or jump the gun? i really liked this guy.
Author lissa90 Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 please excuse typos - on my phone
kiss_andmakeup Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 You definitely did! Good for you for asserting yourself and putting your needs first. Very smart. If he really wants a relationship, he'll get back in touch...but otherwise, you're free as a bird, rather than waiting around for him. 3
BluEyeL Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Yes, you did the exact right thing. He would have broke up with you anyway, or strung you along for longer. 1
soccerrprp Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 You did what you could tolerate. I am with you on this. I would also call my SO out if there was such behavior. You don't need to be strung along until someone "figures" things out. You did what you should have for yourself.
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