KansasChica Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I wasn't sure what board to post this on. My ex and I dated over two years ago for about a year. It was very intense, we loved each other a lot, but I was his first serious girlfriend and he ended it abruptly. I was absolutely devastated and I knew he took it badly too. For over a year, we couldn't even talk to each other- he blamed me for everything and avoided me like crazy. The problem was that we shared a lot of mutual friends. Now, we both date others and can be friendly with one another, but he'll make rude comments to me: like about my appearance or age, etc. He'll then try to justify it by "joking" or "it's okay, we dated". Why would he do this? He's happy with his new girl so why put me down? Especially when he ended it with me almost 2 years ago!
Philosoraptor Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Question is why would you continue to have someone in your life who treats you poorly? You need to draw the line and lay out what is acceptable and what is not. 2
JDPT Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 These are clearly inappropriate even if you guys were still together. You need I start setting boundaries. I have and still am of the opinion that you should keep in touch with your ex. It's as if you were fired from a job, you wouldn't go back the following day. It's done, relationship is over there is absolutely no need to keep in touch. You two had now become strangers. Contemplate the many possibilities now that you are single. Expand your horizons and be happy that you have your life back.
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