Tazz128 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Hi there I'm so glad I found this forum, please help me. Me and my bf know each other for almost four years in long distance and we dating a few months now cause he works in our city, we have been fine and lastweek I felt a sudden change and had this weird gut feeling, lastnight via bbm he told me that he want to tell me something because he feel very bothered and asked me if I noticed any distance between us which only started last week, I said yes and I have been meaning to ask when I see him what's wrong... He told me he met someone else by "accident" and feel very confused. I was shocked but then I told him that I love him and I want him to be happy cause he deserves happiness, I love him and I'm still stunned, I told him that in very hurt and it not wise of me to talk now while feeling these emotions, my question. What do I do? He told me he is not leaving me he just very confused and asked me not to leave him like this, please help me as I'm also confused now because I'm thinking of giving him a no contact break untill he sort himself out, yes I love him but I'm worthy of so much more and I deserve the best cause I am a good decent person. Wht to do
Toddbt12y1 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I'd leave him. Not the answer you want, huh? Look at it like this, he claims to still want you, and yet fell for this other girl. With the distance, wouldn't it be easy for him to fool you? I mean, keep you around as a fallback, whilst taking this other girl out, and more. Then if it doesn't work, he's back loveydovey to you. Of it works, he could be gone. Sorting this out would be up to you I wouldn't though.
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