chin1107 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I met this girl and we liked each other but the timing was all wrong because I had a girlfriend so she stopped talking to me. Months later I still cant stop thinking of this girl so I decide to reach out to her. We began hanging out and things started to get serious between us only she would say she can't trust me. I dont feel like I ever gave her a reason not to but she would say I was flirt which isn't true. I'm just friendly. Anyway because I fell for her I called things off with my girlfriend and said we can remain friends because she truly is a great person. Me and the girl I'm seeing went to this party and she was outside with her ex and I got pissed so I went outside and called mine. She start subliminally telling me how she couldn't trust me and she just wanted to disappear. that night I asked her how she felt towards me and she said it doesn't matter since we won't be together. I took that as a sign that she didn't want anything to do with me but she kept calling and calling. So a week later we went out a date and she asked me am I still talking to my ex. I said yes, thinking that she meant as in conversation wise but she actually meant are we starting to date again. She was pissed and start telling me that she cant take me seriously. So that blew over and I thought we were on good terms until I seen her leaving with somebody else at this party we all went to. And then she tell me that they had sex. I was mind blown and heartbroken. Then she says youre still talking to your ex so it shouldnt matter. We were never together and we were just friends anyway. And she wanted us to still hang out. The following week she practically called me to hint at the fact that she was going to see someone else and then asked me for a favor so i declined. That night we all went out with friends and she kept throwing out subliminal comments saying she's nobody fool and she's not stupid and she had a great night and would chuckle if she thought i was getting upset. Then the entire night she flirted with her ex. I pretended to ignore her. A few days went by and i contacted her telling I miss her and she said she misses me too then she would call me when she got back home. I was sleep and so she thought I was rejecting her calls and I know she began thinking that I was talking to some other girl because of the smart text message she wrote. I text her saying she was the only girl i wanted and she called me asking for a favor. Then she said she didn't know what to say because she heard it all before. That night I saw her at the party with the same person she left the other party with but she didn't seem to pay the other person too much attention. nor I. She just kept to herself and only really talked to her ex. I surprised her and picked her up from her workplace and she asked would I be able to do something for her that night. I said yes but was unable to... She just got annoyed and said she's done. When i tried to apologize, she just hung up on me. and wouldn't answer any of my calls. It's killing me. Should I give it time. I really love this girl so I'm wondering should I fight for her or just leave it alone? I know she cares for me but I think she is just so frustrated with everything and on top of that I really think she might be seeing someone else even tho she told me previously that I shouldn't even worry about it... How do I express to her what I really feel without looking like a needy pushy person? And how do I tell her the truth when she just thinks I'm lying and out to get her?
Philosoraptor Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 She's a nutter and you're one too if you think anything good can come from a relationship with this girl. She's taking enjoyment in toying with you. You'd be best off cutting her out of your life entirely, healing up, building some self esteem so you don't let this happen again, and finding happiness in your own world.
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