sjm Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 This Saturday is what was supposed to be our wedding day. If I ever had a chance at reconciliation would it be on the day that we will need each others comfort more than anything? I dont know, the last time we spoke he said "you know where to find me if you need me" I think I am being stupid. But if it's worth the risk then I would like to try one more time..
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 This Saturday is what was supposed to be our wedding day. If I ever had a chance at reconciliation would it be on the day that we will need each others comfort more than anything? I dont know, the last time we spoke he said "you know where to find me if you need me" I think I am being stupid. But if it's worth the risk then I would like to try one more time.. No...........
Author sjm Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 No........... Yeah I thought so too I'm too scared to take the risk anyway I just miss him so much I feel like crawling into a ball and having him hug me so badly
lovelylilly Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I'm sorry, but don't go see him . Nothing good is going to come from it, and you're probably going to feel worse afterwards. Make sure to spend that day with friends and family. Do whatever you feel that will make you happy. Good luck and stay strong!
Author sjm Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 go see him Why do you say this?
Chris715 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Please don't do it, for your sake. Have you made any plans yet for this Saturday? Anything with family and friends? As hard as it is to hear, he's broken up with you and from what is sounds like he's moved on. Maybe on Saturday he'll acknowledge "hey, this was supposed to be my wedding day", but that's probably it, and he'll pass through it like any other day. Contacting him Saturday or any other day won't have any significance for him, and you'll only end up hurting yourself. I'm sorry sjm, I can imagine you're suffering with the day coming up Hope you're hanging in there.
heartshaped Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I would go see him for closure. I don't think you've seen him since he ended things and I think it would be good to see him in person and discuss the end of things one last time.
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