snowflakes88 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Those other posters who thought he was my FWB made a misinterpretation I'm sorry, but no. Perhaps you clarified things last night, but your last thread asked why he was keeping your "relationship" a secret from your mutual friends and showing interest in another woman to your face (a different woman than the one in this thread, mind you), even though you'd been hanging out and having sex for two weeks. Again, if you've clarified where you stand, then great. But let's not act as though we're making things up or making some far-fetched interpretation.
Author Sweeetie Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 You guys are gonna think I'm crazy but I was all ready to dump him when I spoke to my family who criticised me for overreacting last night, they even said how a good a guy he is for being honest with me, and not like the guys who show their girlfriends that they are good but do stuff behind their backs. I sent him a text to apologise because I overreacted quite a fair bit last night, more than I should have. I'm going to talk to him about this and make sure he knows I don't want him to do it again. I just felt very bad for some of the things I said to him last night.
Author Sweeetie Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 I'm sorry, but no. Perhaps you clarified things last night, but your last thread asked why he was keeping your "relationship" a secret from your mutual friends and showing interest in another woman to your face (a different woman than the one in this thread, mind you), even though you'd been hanging out and having sex for two weeks. Again, if you've clarified where you stand, then great. But let's not act as though we're making things up or making some far-fetched interpretation. I'm sorry, but if you really did read my last thread you will see that we have not been having sex for 2 weeks, but since 3 days ago.
KatZee Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 You guys are gonna think I'm crazy but I was all ready to dump him when I spoke to my family who criticised me for overreacting last night, they even said how a good a guy he is for being honest with me, and not like the guys who show their girlfriends that they are good but do stuff behind their backs. I sent him a text to apologise because I overreacted quite a fair bit last night, more than I should have. I'm going to talk to him about this and make sure he knows I don't want him to do it again. I just felt very bad for some of the things I said to him last night. LOL. How was he honest with you? He eye-f.ucked her right in your face! He couldn't have lied his way around that if he tried! And then YOU apologize? You're going to get walked on up and down in this "relationship." And be prepared when you find out he's eventually cheated on you. You may have said some mean things to him, but he disrespected you right to your face. It wasn't as if you pointing it out came out of no where. It's obvious what kind of guy this is. He's a womanizer. He's also young. He's being lead around by his dick. No matter what you do, or what you say, or how you threaten him... You can't tell him what you want and don't want him to do. Ever tell someone NOT to do something, and the first thing they do, is exactly what you DIDN'T want them doing. NOW he'll start doing it behind your back. 1
Author Sweeetie Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 (edited) LOL. How was he honest with you? He eye-f.ucked her right in your face! He couldn't have lied his way around that if he tried! And then YOU apologize? You're going to get walked on up and down in this "relationship." And be prepared when you find out he's eventually cheated on you. You may have said some mean things to him, but he disrespected you right to your face. It wasn't as if you pointing it out came out of no where. It's obvious what kind of guy this is. He's a womanizer. He's also young. He's being lead around by his dick. No matter what you do, or what you say, or how you threaten him... You can't tell him what you want and don't want him to do. Ever tell someone NOT to do something, and the first thing they do, is exactly what you DIDN'T want them doing. NOW he'll start doing it behind your back. I didn't say I want to stay with him in the text, I just did my part and apologised for the mean things I said. I called him a cheat to his face last night when I really shouldn't have. Now I want to see if he apologises too. If he doesn't I'll have to really re-think things. Edited September 25, 2013 by Sweeetie
KatZee Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I didn't say I want to stay with him in the text, I just did my part and apologised for the mean things I said. I called him a cheat to his face last night when I really shouldn't have. Now I want to see if he apologises too. If he doesn't I'll have to really re-think things. Who cares if he apologizes? Anyone can say the words "I'm sorry." What you need to watch are his actions, and his actions thus far are mediocre at best. You shouldn't be dating someone that you have to tell NOT to stare down other chicks. They should just know what acceptable behavior is. 3
Author Sweeetie Posted November 9, 2014 Author Posted November 9, 2014 Hello everyone. I started this thread 2 weeks into my relationship with my boyfriend- now my ex. We ended up dating for 11 months, and can I just say that you were soo right. Most of our time together consisted of him checking out other girls. Not only that but he never made me feel attractive and didn't want to show people that he was with me when we were out together. His wandering eye was the cause of many, many arguments. I never looked at any other guys when I was with him. The sad thing is that it took away a lot of my self-confidence. When your partner of all people doesn't make you feel beautiful, consistently for 11 months, it can be very damaging. We broke up 3 months ago and day by day my self-confidence is coming back up. I really hope that nobody else get so blinded by love as to put up with such treatment.
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