FaithInTheDark Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Hi so heres my situation. I have a best guy friend who i was very close with...we talked almost every day and i love him so much. recently he slipped into a depression and closes everyone off..he wouldnt talk to me or even a friend of mine he had a thing with..that took a 15hr bus ride to see him ...no responses or anything... i admit he was acting strange. i did get involved a little bit between him and my friend he had a thing with..she was so hurt by the way he treated her and i was sticking up for my girlfriend but not in a over baring way. a couple weeeks have passed and my guy friend wont answer my calls texts or facebook messages...ive seen him around town with his ex and it hurts hell hang with other ppl but wont acknowledge me at all. we were so close and i cant believe this. i trusted him so much and i miss him. ive asked why he wont talk but hes still ignoring me. what do you do when your best friend wont talk to you? help
coolheadal Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 You need to move on and think about yourself. Make new friends. People like your friend there he doesn't want to talk or feel your worth his time again to know your still there. Frankly in this situation you have to think about yourself because if you fall into this nonsense behavior, you end up even lower than you feel now. So one don't either bother to text, call or email or do anything on FB! Just go on with your life. Even if he contacts you on anything media just don't answer. Why should you not answer is because look at how he's treating you now. What he would need to do is come over to where you live and talk to you in real-time not online. But you just have to move on with your life. It's hard but we all have to do that. I had the same thing happen to me and the only advise I can give you is the above.
Author FaithInTheDark Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 thank you for your reply. im going yo try to move on...im still shocked hed throw me away after being such good friends. ill let him come to me but he owes me a huge appology..like u said..why should i run to him if he does give me the time of day? i admit this has affected me and he even haunts me in my dreams. ugh
coolheadal Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 thank you for your reply. im going yo try to move on...im still shocked hed throw me away after being such good friends. ill let him come to me but he owes me a huge appology..like u said..why should i run to him if he does give me the time of day? i admit this has affected me and he even haunts me in my dreams. ugh No problem, but before you go to sleep watch a good comedy (live, show or movie) Then fall asleep with this comedy running in the background. This way you'll have a good night sleep. The next day go ride a bicycle or take walk in the zoo or park or beach. You really need to get out and think about something else. Remember you are not alone everyone here to help you out. I hope my words will help you some how.
jacksonvillae Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 Give it some time. If by a week they don't say anything, be the bigger person and just apologize and talk to him/her
love1336x Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 My best friend isn't currently talking to me because he has a crush on a girl who dislikes me... I simply have chosen to put him on my block list. Give him space, if you mean anything to him, he will response. If not, who needs friends like that?
Author FaithInTheDark Posted September 27, 2013 Author Posted September 27, 2013 last night i was hanging out with his roommate and i went downstairs to where he lives. he was sleeping but his roomie came down to to say hi. it was sooo ackward standing beside him and hed barly look at me. i casually asked why he wont talk to me and he said i dont have a phone. things felt odd... he went back to bed and i went back up stairs. that felt like enough closure for me. he barly acknowledged me..didnt give me any gesture he cared or how he wanted to see me in the future. i literally gave the shirt off my back to him. who needs a friend like that? ive reached out and he wont. its a weird feeling having someone be apart of your life to nothing.
coolheadal Posted September 27, 2013 Posted September 27, 2013 last night i was hanging out with his roommate and i went downstairs to where he lives. he was sleeping but his roomie came down to to say hi. it was sooo ackward standing beside him and hed barly look at me. i casually asked why he wont talk to me and he said i dont have a phone. things felt odd... he went back to bed and i went back up stairs. that felt like enough closure for me. he barly acknowledged me..didnt give me any gesture he cared or how he wanted to see me in the future. i literally gave the shirt off my back to him. who needs a friend like that? ive reached out and he wont. its a weird feeling having someone be apart of your life to nothing. Don't bother trying to get anything answers from him. Excuse that you don't have a phone is enough already for you not to give him the time of day. Why do you push it and then get hurt more in return. He doesn't want to talk or be near you. Big Red flag right there. Don't be in the same room with him if you can help it. Just going to do your head in and your don't want that right now. Future for you would be not to dwell on him. Right now is more important thinks of THE NOW! There are other guys out there that would appreciate what you have to offer them. This is what you have to remember in your mind!
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