dom_maz Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Hey guys, There is a girl i've known for several years.We met at work and were flirting all the time back then, but we were pretty young and no one of us made a move. So always when i met her i tried to come to her, like kissing etc, she acutally rejected me always with the reason i would be too drunk. so i met her like 3 weeks ago at some fair, where she worked, i waited for her to finish work and we went to some burger place. i was already drunk, she was sober. so then she offered me, she would drive me home and i said, well we could also go to your place and she said, no way, my dad wouldnt like that ( She studies somewhere else and lives at home with her parents when shes here) alright, so we went to my place and first she refused to come in with me but did it than anyways. so she played with my dog for a while, before sitting with me on my couch. i started to touch her like all over the place, got even in her pants, when she stopped me and said: sry boy, you are too drunk for that now...before she left, she passed me her number and said, call me sometime, when you sober. i escorted her to the door, she even gave me a kiss and left. so, i never called her in those 3 weeks...i wasnt sure what to think of all of this...i mean, if she wanted it, we had already made out i guess?!? so now today, out of the blue, she texted me...simple: are you good? hows your cute doggy?...i havent responded yet...i mean what does she want...i'm thinking about waiting for couple days...maybe till the weekend... what do you guys think, would that be too long? i know women are very upset when they doesnt get a reply immediatley...but i was kinda pissed at her, that she again rejected me that night and dont want to jump up right away...
clia Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You're pissed at her because she wouldn't let you have sex with her when you were complete wasted and she had to drive you home? Seriously? Dude, she offered to drive you home because she likes you. She went into your house because she likes you. She didn't have sex with you because you were wasted and maybe she has some standards. You have no reason to be pissed off at her. She told you to call her when you were sober. You didn't. At any rate, you obviously aren't interested in her if you haven't contacted her in the past three weeks. Do her a huge favor and don't even respond. Let her focus her attention on a guy who isn't a complete douchebag. 3
Author dom_maz Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 wow...well i think that might came out the wrong way...i like her, shes pretty but i always thought she would be out of my league. We come from different worlds, her, girl from a good family, me working class boy etc...so i figure she would never enter a relationship with me, and just wants to use me now for sex...
MalachiX Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You're pissed at her because she wouldn't let you have sex with her when you were complete wasted and she had to drive you home? Seriously? Dude, she offered to drive you home because she likes you. She went into your house because she likes you. She didn't have sex with you because you were wasted and maybe she has some standards. You have no reason to be pissed off at her. She told you to call her when you were sober. You didn't. At any rate, you obviously aren't interested in her if you haven't contacted her in the past three weeks. Do her a huge favor and don't even respond. Let her focus her attention on a guy who isn't a complete douchebag. What she said. 2
Author dom_maz Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 well guys, just read what i posted below...i thought shes playing me, cant i be pissed about that?!?
ExpatInItaly Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 well guys, just read what i posted below...i thought shes playing me, cant i be pissed about that?!? Please tell me you're joking. Please.
Phantom888 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Stop approaching her when you are drunk. You could have had her by now if you stayed away from booze. 2
joeLove Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 If you REALLY interested in her (not just sex), then talk to her whenever you sober ... and act more like a gentleman !!! 1
Atem Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 you're a ****ing idiot... her telling you "call me" was a clear sign that she wants to see you again - as others have already said - when you're not drunk for once... wtf is it with people and alcohol anyway... Call her, set up a date, do NOT drink, be at your best behavior and maybe you'll get lucky Jeez, I'd kill if a girl who I find pretty and interesting intellectually behaved like that. Unfortunately, all I can find are hot chicks who are just into sex or serios-seeming girls who just don't strike my fancy physically. Stop creating your own stupid problems, stop playing games and give this a real shot. call her + stay away from alcohol 1
todreaminblue Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Because she comes from a good family and you are a working class guy...you assume that she wants to use you for sex.......thats a bit backward....... because i have an opinion that guys see girls from a good family as a challenge......and sometimes make it a goal to bring them down a peg or two .....especially girls or women with standards...it becomes a challenge...women can get sex from working class men.....they dont need to work at it.....they dont need to drive the guy home pissed as a newt.....she obviously likes you and has standards...you messed up by not contacting her...i think you should stop drinking too....be sober it rocks out hard....i wish you well in that with a sober kinda way that grows on you..deb
MidwestUSA Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 your retarded That's "you're". You're welcome. 1
candie13 Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 so you are drunk, you make out, you almost have sex, she gives you her telephone number - which you never asked in the first place. She texts you first. Like, what the hell you want, for her to send you smoke signals? Move your arse. What do you expect here, flowers and dinner, and her to come to your place and use your d*ck to **** herself ? Wake up from your fantasy world. Out there, in real life, men chase women. Seriously ! 1
curiousity Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 i agree with others here, that you should just leave it...you'd do her a favor...maybe you should pass us her number, so that we could tell her, what kinda guy she might want to hook up with...i guess she would change her mind quickly.
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