samaya09 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 (edited) My ex an I have been dating for 6 months we argued a lot but we had good times as well but I did everything possible to be a better gf and changed my attitude. One day we broke up but I asked for a second chance he gave it to me but after all my efforts he still complained and said I was just kissing a** an he felt that my changes and efforts were not genuine an said I was the one keeping him in a relationship he didn't want so to either let him go or just take his attitude. I loved him so I stood his attitude and continued doing my best my daughter loved him he was good with her an I took care of him an his son too on the weekends as if he was my own, cooked, washed clothes went to his games and hobbies, etc. Then he went to family events by himself and didn't invite me an he even went to a friends wedding and didn't invite or contact me.2 weeks later he started going out and then one day after work I called him to c wat he was up to an said he was out with friends and that he will call me back then I wanted to make sure so I checked his instagram an it was a pic of his friend his friends gf an him an another girl I got mad called no answer then he texted me saying y was I doing that then he said a excuse to justify himself and then saw the girls page an saw pix of him on her page told him wat was up he broke up with me an said I was insecure so that's y he broke up with me. Now 3 weeks later after heartbeat and sadness and disappointment I was a lil better but then I went on his social sites an seen pix of him with the same girl on dates smh. But now he texts me saying good morning pr he misses me or texts me babe and tries to be friends but then says sorry for texting but he doesn't want to be with me an won't do it again but still does I don't get it if he still talking to that girl but texting me. I'm confused any advice is welcome. Thank u. Edited September 24, 2013 by samaya09 wrong spelling
coolheadal Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 (edited) Why are you putting up with his nonsense. You need to pull yourself together and go your own way. Why would you want to be a rebound. He uses you and then goes after another girl. That girl ends up dropping him then he comes running back to you because he knows you'll put up with his nonsense. Do you really want to be treated in this sort of fashion for the rest of your life? Don't tell me yes, because you really should look into the mirror and say this" I CAN DO BETTER! I am sure your a very good looking women and you should really think hard to know that there are more decent men out there that would love to be with you and not shove you to one side like this guy is doing and your running around in a dead zone waiting on him. This so call relationship from the start hasn't sound right to me, just going deeper down the drain. Just need to open your eyes, mind and see what the heck is going on! NOTHING GOOD FOR YOU! It's time to move on.. Edited September 25, 2013 by coolheadal 1
Author samaya09 Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Why are you putting up with his nonsense. You need to pull yourself together and go your own way. Why would you want to be a rebound. He uses you and then goes after another girl. That girl ends up dropping him then he comes running back to you because he knows you'll put up with his nonsense. Do you really want to be treated in this sort of fashion for the rest of your life? Don't tell me yes, because you really should look into the mirror and say this" I CAN DO BETTER! I am sure your a very good looking women and you should really think hard to know that there are more decent men out there that would love to be with you and not shove you to one side like this guy is doing and your running around in a dead zone waiting on him. This so call relationship from the start hasn't sound right to me, just going deeper down the drain. Just need to open your eyes, mind and see what the heck is going on! NOTHING GOOD FOR YOU! It's time to move on.. Thank you for your wise words an yes I am a attractive 27 yr old female and that's y I couldn't comprehend y this guy was an is acting like this to top it off everyone including my family and friends tell me y am I with a man who is ugly on the outside and inside I get asked out an complimented all the time so this was new to me plus he always blames me for the relationship failing and when we were together he would show me off to his friends but I took it as he took pride in being with me an having me as his gf. I've tried Nc but he finds ways to get back in contact. Again thank u everyone says its better to have him out of my life.
Misfortune Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 He'll eventually get the point if you ignore him long enough. Let him talk to himself. 1
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