willpower654 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Hey friends, So a gf of mine is really upset because she caught her bf texting a girl and trying to take her to a hotel... She actually found out the day the hotel thing was supposed to happen because she had a gut feeling and checked his phone... They have been together for 3 years living together. His response to all of this was that she only gives it up once a week and thats not enough for him etc... I am just wondering because his response really surprised me... Is this actually how men think? Hypothetically if you are sick for a week that they need it so bad more frequently that they will find it somewhere else? Why is this happening to such a good person? Life is just so peculiar.
Philosoraptor Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 He seems self centered and chose to look at other options versus communicating and being honest. Each person is an individual and make their choices. Lumping any group together based on sex, race, etc. is just another form of discrimination. Personally, as a man, I'd communicate honestly about the issue. If we could not resolve it, I would end the relationship before looking outside of it.
Misfortune Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Hey friends, So a gf of mine is really upset because she caught her bf texting a girl and trying to take her to a hotel... She actually found out the day the hotel thing was supposed to happen because she had a gut feeling and checked his phone... They have been together for 3 years living together. His response to all of this was that she only gives it up once a week and thats not enough for him etc... I am just wondering because his response really surprised me... Is this actually how men think? Hypothetically if you are sick for a week that they need it so bad more frequently that they will find it somewhere else? Why is this happening to such a good person? Life is just so peculiar. His response was ice cold. She should not be feeling any guilt for his infidelity. I would leave simply because of his response and knowing that he has no self restraint. This has nothing to do with gender IMO. There are females that are the same as your friend's bf. Nice people seem to get the short end of the stick in this world.
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