steveT95 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Last weekend I started chatting to a girl on Facebook. We used to get on quite well and we haven't spoken in a few years so I thought it would be nice to catch up. She's from France so I asked her if she'd seen the catacombs under Paris. There is an underground cinema in one. We said it would be good to have something like that where we are and I said I knew a place that'd work. I jokingly said we should do it, not expecting much of a response and she agreed. We're taking cushions and going to watch films on a laptop on top of an old mine building. It's a safe building, very sturdy. So basically we'll be spending Saturday night together, watching films and listening to music outside. It's hard to explain but it is kinda cute and romantic. Is this a date? 1
coolheadal Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Make it for what it's worth, and you'll see it's more of a get together. Spending some time with here and watching movies an etc. See how it develops? Don't rush it and give it a chance. Watch her, see how she is with you? Does she look into your eyes with a gaze? (also look back to here at this point) Pay attention to her. Be a gentlemen. The moves we all make in a situation like this just have to play it right. Don't forget to bring the wine/glasses and cheese. Give her Red Rose or Pink Rose.. "Say this is for you!" Have fun and let us know here how it turned out! Don't forget!
Babolat Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Last weekend I started chatting to a girl on Facebook. We used to get on quite well and we haven't spoken in a few years so I thought it would be nice to catch up. She's from France so I asked her if she'd seen the catacombs under Paris. There is an underground cinema in one. We said it would be good to have something like that where we are and I said I knew a place that'd work. I jokingly said we should do it, not expecting much of a response and she agreed. We're taking cushions and going to watch films on a laptop on top of an old mine building. It's a safe building, very sturdy. So basically we'll be spending Saturday night together, watching films and listening to music outside. It's hard to explain but it is kinda cute and romantic. Is this a date? Suggestion: Ask her, not us....just sayin'
coolheadal Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Best he doesn't ask her that.. Even if it's just going out for a good time enjoy it as you never know how it will turn it out! I wish him the best! Just have to think positive today! Keep thinking it and with the intent on what you want out of this situation. If you go in this direction good things will happen too you.!
Woop1337 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You should've made it official and asked her on a date. Don't ask her now/again. That would be redundant. Go on this, get together, you arranged. Then you ask her on a date the next time you want to go out. The way I look at it. If she has any interest in you. Why would she say no to a date? Good luck, I hope everything turns out great for you.
Author steveT95 Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 Thank you for the replies, guys. I fancied her when I was 14, but haven't seen her since then. I'm not 18, she's 17. I didn't even directly ask her to meet up, it just happened. So I will play it by ear, flirt and have fun. Who knows what will happen! She seems keen for it. If something comes from it, then great. If not then I've had a night out, so that's great too.
Author steveT95 Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Okay, so, she seemed really keen at first when we planned it at the weekend but work and friends kept getting in the way for her. Then she's had to cancel this weekend because she forgot she had invited someone over. She says she'll check her work rota for when she's next free. I gave her my mobile number but she didn't do anything with it. She's not been online as much through the week and it has been harder to have a conversation. She could just be busy. Is she losing interest or more than likely just busy?
todreaminblue Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 most assuredly a date... a unique one..... inspired.....whimsical....best wishes...deb 1
Author steveT95 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Posted September 26, 2013 I'm going in town on Saturday to buy clothes. She works in one of the stores. We haven't spoken much through the week and I feel I've been the one initiating any contact. Does it look stalkerish if I pop in and say 'hi' to her? We did talk about it at the beginning of the week.
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