starla33 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 I met a guy traveling over the weekend and we hooked up. Hes from the same town where I live so I was pretty happy about it. Got home and told my friend about him. She said it sounded like this guy her friend was dating exclusively (showed me a pic). It ended up being him!!! Shes going to tell her friend about it. I really don't want to be in the middle of this it's absolutely an insane coincidence. Should I just tell him he needs to talk to his gf before my friend/her friend says anything to her about it?
EdG Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You've done nothing wrong, you weren't to know he had a girlfriend. If I were you I'd now get out the way and let them sort out their issues. I'd also cut ties with this guy, you don't want to be involved with a cheat now or in the future. My 2 cent.
Author starla33 Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 You've done nothing wrong, you weren't to know he had a girlfriend. If I were you I'd now get out the way and let them sort out their issues. I'd also cut ties with this guy, you don't want to be involved with a cheat now or in the future. My 2 cent. Of course it's not my fault I mean even his friends told me he is single there. I just don't want to be in the middle of this drama. So I was thinking of just telling him I know all about it and he needs to talk to his woman before my friend says something to her which she will.
Bito Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Make sure to call him a pathetic douche. Thanks!
KatZee Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 If you don't want to be in the middle then just drop it. You had a fling on vacation, you went home and told your friend about it (normal reaction), she recognized the guy and realized it's the guy her friend is dating. You don't need to "threaten him" or "warn him" about the incoming s.hit storm. Whatever actions she takes is out of your control. You did nothing wrong, and you shouldn't be a part of it for a second longer. He's the one who cheated, so let him reap the consequences.
soccerrprp Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Of course it's not my fault I mean even his friends told me he is single there. I just don't want to be in the middle of this drama. So I was thinking of just telling him I know all about it and he needs to talk to his woman before my friend says something to her which she will. You have no obligation to tell him. Perhaps this is a life-lesson for him to deal with?
coolheadal Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Forget him! Cheater who has cheated on his girl friend already! Don't think for one moment he won't do it too you one day!
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