youcanever Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Well, when she broke up with me she told me to get out of her life. I kept that promise and havent contacted her 2.5 months. She wrote me at whatsapp "would you be angry if i call you?" And i replied "no, i wouldnt care".. She called and we talked 45 mins. It was a lil weird. I felt nothing emotional towards her. I just remember that sex was great, nothing else. It didnt hurt me talking to her. Still doesnt. I dont want her back or i dont want to try again. It was just like she called me to make me jealous. She said she will go to erasmus, camps, interrails and she told all about what she did in last 2.5 months. And i was like "aha aha cool" and told what i did, what i am doing and my europe trip plans. I told her i am going to belgrade next month and also spend cristmas at prague. She went silence and became a lil jealous. Told her how good i am at work and how i hit the gym and how i take dance classes. I didnt told her these to make her jealous, just told because she asked what i am doing. Also i knew she just called to check up on me and make me jealous and i was not. She disappointed. Also she asked my post adress so she will send my stuff back. After 3 months? I told her it is okay she can keep i dont care but she insisted. Anyway this is it. I just wanted to share with you guys. Yes i wish it never ended but it is okay i am moving on. Also now i feel confused. Am i mindtricked? Why did she call? She didnt say she want me back. Even said she was so unhappy in relationship. Why call then? 1
RiceaRoni Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 It's like you said, it seems as if she was trying to make you jealous. Either that or check up on you to see if you're seeing someone new. Whatever her reason, it was information for her...it was all just for her. I say take it like a grain of salt. It doesn't mean anything. Keep doing what you've been doing and look forward. Good luck 3
KatZee Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 She called you just to tug on the leash to see if you're still attached. You're not, and that's why you got the feeling of obvious disappointment from her. She wanted to hear that you were miserable, so unhappy without her. Instead, you're happy. You moved on. You're living your life and doing great things. This wasn't what she wanted to hear, she wanted the ego boost... and she didn't get it. Don't engage with her again. Let her live the rest of her life with the image of you happy, successful, and doing great. Without her. 2
Author youcanever Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 It's like you said, it seems as if she was trying to make you jealous. Either that or check up on you to see if you're seeing someone new. Whatever her reason, it was information for her...it was all just for her. I say take it like a grain of salt. It doesn't mean anything. Keep doing what you've been doing and look forward. Good luck You are right. She even asked my post adress to send my stuff back as î wrote. She just wanted to piss me off and make me jealous. 1
Author youcanever Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 She called you just to tug on the leash to see if you're still attached. You're not, and that's why you got the feeling of obvious disappointment from her. She wanted to hear that you were miserable, so unhappy without her. Instead, you're happy. You moved on. You're living your life and doing great things. This wasn't what she wanted to hear, she wanted the ego boost... and she didn't get it. Don't engage with her again. Let her live the rest of her life with the image of you happy, successful, and doing great. Without her. I never got jealous of her during chat, i was calm and in control of my life. I even apologised to her for wrong things î did and she was surprised by this. At the end i told her i wish she get every dream she dreams of and be happy. She thanked and we ended chat. Did something goofy? Is all cool?
malin819 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 I never got jealous of her during chat, i was calm and in control of my life. I even apologised to her for wrong things î did and she was surprised by this. At the end i told her i wish she get every dream she dreams of and be happy. She thanked and we ended chat. Did something goofy? Is all cool? if your not jealous and its not bothering you why are you wondering and thinking about all this?
Author youcanever Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 if your not jealous and its not bothering you why are you wondering and thinking about all this? You are right, who am i kidding? I care for her still thats why i answered. But i feel like i dont want her back.
malin819 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You are right, who am i kidding? I care for her still thats why i answered. But i feel like i dont want her back. The call had an effect on you and from what I read you didn't get anything out of this. Next time don't even answer...
Author youcanever Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 The call had an effect on you and from what I read you didn't get anything out of this. Next time don't even answer... Yes it effected me maybe but i hope it pass soon. And ît is not as powerful as before.
Author youcanever Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 Well, my mind started to get more confused. I was out of this forum like 1.5-2 months because i was feeling good and moving on. As i opened a thread yesterday, my ex called me 2 days ago and we chatted. I dont feel emotional towards her but i feel like î am starting again. The îdea of she will be with someone hurts me again and i was kind of okay with it. Also at our chat i told her i did lots of wrongs too and i apologised for them. She thanked. Like she did nothing wrong and told she was so stressful and unhappy at the relationship. She said all about her dreams in future. Now i started thinking of her again. I feel like calling her and started missing her. Damn. Btw it has been 4 months since break up.
Misfortune Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I would hang out in the forums a bit to occupy my mind and pick on methods that would keep me from interacting with my ex. Don't you have dreams that you would like to make real? I would work on some of them. For me, I accepted that people being with others is a part of life and I felt better. They were with someone b4 us and probably will be after us.
Author youcanever Posted September 25, 2013 Author Posted September 25, 2013 I would hang out in the forums a bit to occupy my mind and pick on methods that would keep me from interacting with my ex. Don't you have dreams that you would like to make real? I would work on some of them. For me, I accepted that people being with others is a part of life and I felt better. They were with someone b4 us and probably will be after us. You are right. They were with someone before us too. Also enough with emotional rollercoaster and time to man up and move on. Yes she was a good girl but she turned înto a girl which hurt me a lot. She deserve better and i deserve better. Wish her happiness.
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