HarleyBrown2 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 My ex GF broke up with me 13 weeks ago, saying her head was saying one thing, heart another, thought she'd regret it but it was for the best because we argued (over the fact that she was a cake eater and had double standards, one rule for me another for her, was okay for her to flirt and get attention from others, but was super jealous of I even mentioned a friends name) Anyway I've been doing okay, avoiding her fb and not in contact with her. For 2 months I was strict NC and she reached out with breadcrumbs several times. She msgd me on my birthday so I replied with thanks, to which she replied with a msg and 4 'x's which we never do. She now calls and texts me whenever I put any update on fb, such as a new hobby I start or I've just bought a place and am moving so she called and text, I don't answer the calls but I reply to her text to be civil, my only concern is I don't want to go backwards! I would love to have her in my life, because she is a lovely person inside, it's just we didnt work because she's insecure and needs external validation from others, which I find disrespectful, she's also selfish and plays games, which I don't know if she is even aware of! As I say I loved her more than anything and don't think that will go away because she was my first love, but I know friends is all that's on the cards and to be honest that's all I'd want, I'm just finding it almost impossible to have her in my life without getting set back in the healing process! Anyone have any experience with this I would really appreciate it, I love her family and her, but don't think I can move on the final stages with her in my life and sadly think I have to say goodbye for good...
ashketchum Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 The heart wants what the heart wants my friend. i feel your pain i may be in your situation in a few months. Tell me what you decide to do.
Author HarleyBrown2 Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 I'll be sure to update this thread with what I chose to do, but I'm thinking it's gonna have to be the sad option which is cut out of my life. Which is so sad because we were so in love for over a year and made some amazing memories together, travelled around the world, but it's the only way I can see an end to this.
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