Patiently waiting Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 Needs: in no particular order... Children - having "dad" On going sexual excitement/fulfillment Legitimacy in my relationships regardless of what kind they are Happiness Money Work fulfillment Sense of adventure Acceptance for 'who I am" Periodic freedom from relationships (being able to go away on his own for weekend etc..) Being loved Being thought of positively by my family My house When I asked him to rate these in order of need by using the process of elimination, he had this to say..... 1st thing he could give up "Being thought of postively by my family" 2nd " " " " " " Work fulfillment" (says has other means of getting fulfillment ie: kids, work isn't everything) 3rd Sense of adventure That's as far as we got on this topic as we had limited time to discuss it Anyone care to psychoanalyze???
Debster Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 Sounds like a real winner! Yikes - if any man I was interested in chose being thought of positively by his family as the last thing on his list, I would run far, far away. My husband is one of those guys who doesn't really give a rats as$ what other people think of him. The only opinon that counts (besides his), is mine. To me, that is a man I want to keep!
Author Patiently waiting Posted November 25, 2004 Author Posted November 25, 2004 yeah, when he told me that, I was like....hmmmmm, are ya sure? he said yes..... He is more f-d up than I ever was!
I Survived Posted November 26, 2004 Posted November 26, 2004 What I don't understand is WHY ARE YOU STILL TALKING TO THAT WORM?????????????????????????
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