zilverenvlinder Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 I haven't slept in my own bed for three months, after I met a guy at a party and we hit it off REALLY well. We've been sleeping together every night since. He DOES call himself my boyfriend, and he told me he loved me ONCE, but he was drunk so I don't think that counts. He is a very kind, sweet guy. However, he is CONSTANTLY on a website where he talks to other women and tells them "love ya!" and "xoxoxo" and "you are the coolest girl ever". All that stuff. Blah blah blah. I get extremely jealous and I don't know if normal guys do this. I DO think I must love him or care about him a whole lot because I am a constant cheater, and it's a problem I have. I haven't cheated on him yet despite the opportunities. He told me about a week ago how much love he has for me, but nothing along the lines of "I love you". He also told me that I'm the best relationship he's ever had. I don't know if I believe him or what. Does this SOUND like a healthy relationship to you? I don't think I've ever really been in a HEALTHY relationship and I want to know if it is. Thanks everyone!! <3 zv
Chan Posted November 25, 2004 Posted November 25, 2004 is he aware of the way it makes u feel because he probably seems it as harmless and doesnt mean anything by it. maybe tell him how you feel,ive had same experience in my relationship its better when you confront them then their aware of how your feeling and he will probably reasure you its nothing,and will hopefully stop.
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