youaremysunshine Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 So after drunkenly hooking up with my neighbor, he send me a touching email praising my "sweet, giving, gentle nature" and hinting at some deeper feelings. I left traveling but we kept in touch, more touching emails, some songs he wrote. I let him know I was back in town and he came to my mothers shop, where I was working to formally ask me out to dinner. He picked me up at the door wearing, a little dress jacket, I'm not even kidding! At dinner he was super sweet. held the door, tried to pay all that crap. He said "This is all I have ever wanted" I was a bit taken aback. I ended up going home with him haha. the sex was incredible, all night. he was like holding my hand and looking into my eyes telling me I'm beautiful. held me all night. It was really too much. He says "I think we are made for eachother" I was like how can I know? but I told him I want to find out. he even made me breakfast! he was late for work at the hospital (he's a research biologist) but he wasn't mad. I don't know it just seems to good to be true. Not to be rude but it's not often I have handsome singer-songerwriters/scientists with excellent manners and big #@!#s pursuing me he I feel like it has to be a trick? what's his game though, I was perfectly willing to have sex with him without with him pretending to be prince charming. it's worth noting that I'm 23 and he's 28, we met when I was 18 so he might think of me as being a bit of a child.
MalachiX Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 It's hard to tell. He does seem to be coming off a bit strong but, if you've known each other a while, he might have been crushing on you for some time. Here's a secret I'll tell you about men: Sometimes, we develop feelings after a hook-up too. I'm kinda in that situation now and I'm wondering if me and your guy have the same thought process. I hooked up with someone I knew casually, had amazing sex, and then was surprised that I was starting to feel something. I had just expected this to be casual but the sex started to get more tender throughout the morning (we kinda went on and off all night); and I was surprisingly into her by the end of it. I don't know if I and this girl are right for each other but, the second I realized I was starting to develop feelings, I wanted to really let her know that I was interested in exploring something more than casual sex. Maybe your guy is the same but I've also gone a tad overkill just because I don't want her to feel used and also don't want her to think I'm just asking her out so we can bang again (not that I'd mind another amazing night That said, TAKE THIS SLOW! Remember that you guys just hooked up and this may have created a fall sense of intimacy in both your minds. Explore the potential for a relationship but try not to be swayed by how good you guys are in bed (which ain't easy 1
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