alogrinalexandra Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Hi Guys, After posting in Hammer's thread I wondered about his situation & other guys in the same situation. You go & visit a women that you have written letters to & talked on Skype with for 3-4 months. You meet & everything is going fine, you hit it off, chemistry is perfect, both want the same things for future. You both make plans to commit & even the women gets visa approval & at the last stretch when you are ready to have it all solidified something happens & it is over. "WHY"? Was there something you couldn't see or read that could have told you that this was coming. My question to all the guys is this, if you had a similiar situation to this, why do you think it fell apart when you thought it was solid? What are your thoughts on this? What would you do differently the next time you meet someone & visit her in her country?
Rugger1869 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Yup. Just happened to me. You were "on the hook." Sorry, man. The good news is that it wasn't you that percipitated this. Good luck!
deathandtaxes Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 There's also fear. Fear of commitment. Fear of rejection. Etc.
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