dreameater Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 (edited) I asked my EX out for a talk... Ultimatum in another word since she broke up with a guy which is my rebound. When she entered in my car, she cried all the way. Reason? That rebound guy is using a tactic in love to affect her and to get her back: dating and kissing her friend under her back to make her jealous. And she fall in trap and cry badly... She lie to me that she was taking a bath, but in fact, she was texting him all the way and he doesn't give a sht (to build more attraction to her of not having the fear to lose her). Law of attraction: the least care will lead the relationship. I was so sensitive to her cry, so I comfort her and become her emotional tampon victim once again... What kind of jerk am I? Dang! I tried to let it go, but there is like a string from me that is attached to her which I cannot remove it and it has been over a year... All the night, she cry and told me that I am on her priority list if she ever get a new BF and blablabla. They broke up for over 2 weeks. Why did she have to care about this guy? Because she is still in love... She is waiting him to change, but this rebound will never... And act badly to pulse more attraction to her And me? I don't know what is my actual my position. She rather talk to her friend of 40years old than listen to my crap... I know I have a big chance of losing her forever, but if I do not try, my chance of fail is 100%. Will keep you guys posted... Wish me luck guys... Edited September 24, 2013 by dreameater
Simon Phoenix Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Dude, you don't have a chance in hell, especially when you play the role of emotional tampon. Stop this now. I mean, she's sharing stuff about another guy to you -- she does not view you as a romantic option. She views you as a girl friend. You already lost her in a romantic way. If you can't handle being her friend because you are romantically attracted to her, you have to stop talking to her. You didn't blow a chance at reconciliation -- you were never a realistic option to begin with. 1
KeepItBoosted Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 You have been friend zoned buddy...let go now. Go NC and move on with your life or you'll just keep this going. Simon is right, you never had a chance getting her back. It will hurt but at least you won't keep ripping the perverbial band-aid off and be able to heal. 1
reddragon588 Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 All the night, she cry and told me that I am on her priority list if she ever get a new BF and blablabla. They broke up for over 2 weeks. Why did she have to care about this guy? Because she is still in love... She is waiting him to change, but this rebound will never... And act badly to pulse more attraction to her And me? I don't know what is my actual my position. She rather talk to her friend of 40years old than listen to my crap... I know I have a big chance of losing her forever, but if I do not try, my chance of fail is 100%. You already lost her forever. She's waiting for him. Not you. Time to move on. You already tried. Can't win them all unfortunately.
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 When you start treating yourself with respect, she will VIEW you as worthy of being respected. Let.Her.Go. to regain that self respect.
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