Getta Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 So i met this girl about a week ago at a beach function and she clearly liked me. She asked me if I had a girlfriend and we flirted and talked for a while. We exchanged numbers and she texted me the same night and we had a flirty convo. The next day she messaged me first again, same flirty text. The next day, I message her and organize for us to meet up at the college we both go to. We meet up at college and meet her friends and her and I flirty and have great conversation for about two hours. We clearly like each other. I did not text her again till the night of the day after. When i text her she gives me one word answers and gives off the vibe that she doesnt want me to talk to her... Anyway, I ask her what time she is free, she tells me around 2 o clock, so at 2 the next day I message her asking where she is , but she never responded. another day passes and we were in the same room yesterday for a program thingy and I know she saw me but I was filling out this paper when it ended so my head was down and when i looked up she left without even saying hi to me. ANother day passes and I text her " Hey __ you have been acting slightly different lately? everything ok?" and she says " Yeah I have just been stressed out with school . And i saw you on friday but i had to rush to catch the bus"" SO i texted her back " Ok, hit me up when you are not busy"" Its been 2 days and she has not messaged me since. And my whatsapp tells me that she is online most of the time when i check. So does she not like me anymore or something? Do i text her again? I am utterly confused:confused:
Carenth Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 She has lost interest, she is giving you the fade. No mixed signals here.
TooPatient Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Personally, I definitely wouldn't text her again. You didn't do anything wrong, you've given her the opportunity to hang out and for whatever reason she hasn't taken it. Impossible to tell what she's thinking, but based on what you've described, I wouldn't contact her again. Chances are you'll run into her again anyway, you can take it from there. 1
carhill Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 So does she not like me anymore or something? Tip: Appearances are the tools of the young lady. It's the long-haul that demonstrates true and consistent 'like'. IMO, there are no 'mixed signals' here. This was a situational fun moment for the lady. New day, new moment. Normal. Move on.
Author Getta Posted September 24, 2013 Author Posted September 24, 2013 Okay, on to the next one I guess. Also I will see her friday for the rest of this semester.
Guitarisgood Posted September 24, 2013 Posted September 24, 2013 Sorry if I haven't read anyone elses replies but her friends must have not approved. This was a test by the girl I think. You should have ignored the girl the whole time and made friends with everyone instead. You know she's into you but not anyone else. Time to let it go bro, learn from your mistakes and there is always plenty of fish in the sea. 1
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